We have all felt at some point in time that our voices, opinions, or feelings are not being heard, acknowledged or appreciated. Myself, i feel a lot of the time i express an opinion or feeling without explaining its origin. The result is that i often feel misunderstood, and one cannot feel acknowledgement or appreciation […]
It’s fairly regular for me to have to stuff something into my pants. That’s what makes these panties special 😉 Mistress asked me to wear my garters to work today and i thought, oh fun the blue panties will go nice with my white stockings, under my blue jeans, and nobody will know what a […]
This was not in reaction to, but is nonetheless a good response to an advance i received based on nothing more than the protocol and the practice of submissive males wearing panties. I have often said that my mood can be affected by the clothing i wear, but the purpose to me doesn’t change. Underneath […]
Some of the earliest tools were developed to be precise and efficient, bows and arrows have existed for over 20,000 years and variations are still used today. Simple solutions solve simple problems and reach goals efficiently. If you feel the tools you use are no longer effective, before seeking new ones, evaluate what goals have […]
Being a submissive or a slave can be all encompassing, all engaging and all fulfilling. Similarly chastity, as an extension, places parameters around arousal, sexual tension, and release. The thought of enjoyment outside of submission, or control for many over time is undesirable, and can be raught in anxiety. Two reasons for this are the […]
That iconic track from Rocky Three, it was written for the movie and it was adjusted and recorded to fit just right. Prior to that song being in the movie, another song of equal stature stood in its place as a template for what would fit the scene, what would fit the mood. So often […]
Summer means it’s wedding season, time to surround yourself with beautiful things in uncomfortable situations. The “in” designs include bringing the outdoors in, many a unique hay/grass inspired decoration atop a burlap runner, you run your fingers over it but only to confirm its gruff exterior feels as itchy as it looks. Your table mates […]
Delicate things need to be handled with care, to be honest i consider us all delicate things. There are a lot of romantic themes in BDSM, chivalry and tradition in etiquette and protocol, sacrifice and duty in selflessness and ownership, the dynamic between D/s itself is at its core fragile and unpredictable. If left unattended, […]
Securely fastened to the hard wood pole, splinters digging into his back with each move. The hemp rope digging it way into his chest with each breathe he takes, running down and under his painful swollen balls and back up and around securely holding him in position. Each Mistress taking turns swatting at his swollen red […]
There is a common misconception that Dominants instinctively know what to do and have the memory of elephants. Many make claims to support this theory, but the truth is the most involved and experienced Dominants usually set goals and challenges for their subs because they have the same expectations for themselves. Many submissives view the […]