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Being a heart ass

Taking pleasure in someone’s mistakes is amazing especially after you told them it would happen. That’s right, you should feel good about it because you were right. If all you really wanted was to be right, you wouldn’t have offered your opinion in the first place. Some feel that being a hard ass it the […]

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When You are always right

Someone very near and dear to me is always right, i won’t embarrass Mistress by saying who it is, but She will let you know between the two of us it is Her, She will let me know however in much more subtle ways. It took little time for me to remove the word no […]

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Pretty cocky

It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]

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Power Exchange

  In my view, power exchange is simply handing over power of an aspect, or multiple aspects, of your life to your partner for them to control. Now, with that being said, there are various ways ones can engage in a power exchange relationship,  and to varying degrees. And it doesn’t necessarily mean it has to […]

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“The slave contract” What Happens Next

Mistress doesn’t like restraints. She likes to order Her subs to stand there, hold their position while She tortures their body with various implements of mass destruction. Floggers, whips, canes, paddles?? Not in this case, just 6 inches black Louboutin heels. AKA..the ballbusters! Watching Her slave stand there, holding his (well Her) balls up on […]

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Leaving little to the imagination

There is a middle ground in the communication between Dominant and submissive where creation lies, where ideas become negotiations, and scenes play out uninhibited. Scripting such performances can feel inauthentic, and presenting a blank page lacks enticement. What, where, when and why, these are the most important questions for a D/s discussion. What it should […]

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Being heard

We have all felt at some point in time that our voices, opinions, or feelings are not being heard, acknowledged or appreciated. Myself, i feel a lot of the time i express an opinion or feeling without explaining its origin. The result is that i often feel misunderstood, and one cannot feel acknowledgement or appreciation […]

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Thick skin

One of the amazing aspects of being among the kink community at large is the acceptance and inclusivity of all variations of diversity. It does not mean we are free from judgement or prejudice however, and we should remember that it requires discipline and dedication to remain in a positive headspace and routine. So many […]

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Active vs Passive Submission

Active submission means that a sub is actively engaged with their Dominant. This can be done though negotiation, scene planning, doing extra things above the expectations to make their Dominant happy. They understand that a dynamic is a journey and not the destination, seeking to grow with their Dominant and be part of the ongoing […]

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What’s in a kinky name?

I am all about nicknames, for most of my life i have had one to the extent that some of my closest friends went years without knowing that it wasn’t my real name. It’s a name i associate with my youth, with accomplishments of the past and i can quickly assume a lighter more jovial […]