The foundations of BDSM are anchored in trust, the best source for growth are also and always going to be placed you can trust. If you are new to the scene, join a local munch or online social community and listen, ask questions, and gather as many opinions as possible. If you have experience, ask […]
?Topic: Take a moment to reflect on what it means to appreciate Women, and share with the Dungeon what kinds of things you do in your day to day life that are in appreciation to Women. Also, see if you can come up with at least one more way you can further appreciate the amazing […]
Miss Seelie’s Week This week really made me think and analyze a lot about myself. I think it brought out some of the best in me. It meant a lot because I negotiated my first ever scene. I recognized my injuries and how it could impact play time. I got to combine impact, CBT, and […]
This myth, like most myths, is born out of ignorance, inexperience, and misunderstanding. In my opinion one of the main roots of this myth is a misunderstanding or lack of thought of how control or power is exchanged in a Dominant/submissive relationship. This myth stems from the assumption that the power, control, or influence that […]
Love, Sex and BDSM.
Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]
BDSM is all about pain and torture… The Myth “Please water board me, please I need it” I have never even heard of anyone uttering these words. To some is supposedly BDSM is all about pain and torture. There are a couple issue with this statement. One torture is involuntary where as BDSM requires consent. […]
I picked Auralism as my kink topic this time and there isn’t a lot of information out there about it compared to many other kinks. Basically this is arousal through sound whether that sounds is voice, music or even having others hear you. In reality this is considered to be more of a fetish than […]