Kinky Goals & Resolutions, Week One It’s that time again—the year is new and many people use this time to set goals and make resolutions for the calendar ahead. As lifestyle kinksters, we too can take the new year as a chance to reflect on our kinky journey and chart our course for what we’d […]
The Sensation Play Series Nipple Play “My face is up here,” the Domme corrects her sub as he fixates on her chest. Truth be told though, breasts and nice pecs (pectoralis muscles) can easily draw anyone’s gaze (men aren’t the only people who stare at chests!). Breasts and nipples can be nice to look at […]
What is Figging? ‘Figging’ is the practice of using ginger root for stimulation. It is a form of sensation play, although it can also be considered a form of chemical play. Figging causes a moderate to fairly intense sensation that varies a lot from person to person but it causes a sensation quite unlike any […]
BDSM Chemical Play
BDSM Abrasion Play
Tease and denial is the art of taking your sub/partner to dizzying
heights of arousal, increasing sexual tension, desire and anticipation and keeping them there for a prolonged period of time making for an exciting power exchange.
Edging – more than just getting off If you hear someone talk about edging, unless they’re gardeners they are usually talking about a common form of orgasm control. ‘edging’ ‘surfing’ ‘peaking’ is building up to the point just before an orgasm and then reducing, changing or stopping all stimulation so that an orgasm isn’t achieved. […]
Chastity in the BDSM context is a form of Power Exchange, and can be used as sexual play or as a protocol within a dynamic.
It’s more fun than it sounds Orgasm control is an umbrella or catch-all term that covers a number of sub-categories. Orgasm denial Teasing and denial Edging Ruined orgasms Cumming on command Forced orgasms Post-orgasm torture Chastity. Simply put, it’s a broad term that covers a power exchange where one person has an aspect of their […]