I decided to focus my research around the benefits of participating in BDSM from an emotional and mental state of well being, what the psychological effects are, and how to get the most out of BDSM to promote a healthy mindset. The first article examines kinks and fetishes, how they impact the mind and what […]
Month: August 2019
When we let words hold power of us, we reduce our own self worth, and indeed our thick skin to be paper thin and translucent. Referring to ourselves negatively, we attempt to hide the impact those words hold over us, but claiming them first before others can. When we respond to negative words from others, […]
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Cover me up
There’s a song i love by Jason Isbel with this title, and the chorus goes; “cover me up, and know your’re enough, to use me for good”, it speaks to me and the way i am feel vulnerable at the wisp of a breath from Mistress at any given time. What struck me yesterday was […]
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The delicate nature of ribbons
Bows can be so pretty, but ribbons don’t always stand for joy. Something seemingly delicate and frail can hold so much power if placed on a pedestal. Holding together important gifts and garments ribbons can bind and prevent things from unravelling and falling apart. Ribbons can carry meaning, symbolic signs of hope or cut when […]
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The Human Mind on BDSM
For this assignment, I read four articles about BDSM and the psychology behind it. All four of them focused on the effects of what it is like to be in a BDSM relationship. Psychologytoday.com starts with the question by asking “Are they sick?” and going into an explanation of how Freud’s psychology would view it as […]
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Pretty cocky
It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]
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Twisted. Sister!
Sometimes the things we see as strange or over the top in others are the things we could learn the most from. I am someone who struggles to speak in front of others, i search for the right words, i wonder if my meaning is clear. Those who blab on freely without thinking and say […]
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Isn’t it worth it?
We talk of needs yet so many are quick to dismiss them when obstacles appear. When are you going to be free of obstacles? When would it be a good time for you to fulfill your needs exactly? As a manager i am presented with obstacles daily and i respond to all problems presented to […]
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The Arts Week
Shoutouts We would like to congratulate our newest permanent Dungeon sub, Danny! Way to go! Danny jumped in with both feet and has really embraced the lifestyle. Welcome to the F/family Danny! Our newest trial sub mark is doing a wonderful job, hard working, he has really hit the ground running. Keep up the good […]
Take time off is important, whether it is a few hours a day, a few days, or an extended period of time, it helps us recalibrate, recharge, and gives us perspective and appreciate what we have to come back to. It can be a challenge to take time away from things that are routine or […]