Dom(me)’s Life

This Month on Dom(me)’s Life
  • Subspace
    What is subspace? Subspace is sometimes described as an altered headspace, a floaty feeling, total bliss. Subspace is hard to […]
  • The Fundamentals Series – Drop
    What is Drop? During the course of a scene our bodies and our minds go through a series of changes, […]
  • Post Orgasm Torture
    Immediately after an orgasm, manipulation of the genitals can be uncomfortable and even painful. Post orgasm torture (POT) can be […]

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Who are we?

Dom(me)’s Life is a group of like-minded kinky people with a passion for personal growth in both our vanilla and BDSM lives.

What does personal growth mean?

  • Bettering one’s self through honesty, integrity, and confidence.
  • Learning personal acceptance and self love
  • Developing better forms of communication through personal vulnerability, negotiation, and honesty about wants vs needs
  • Finding a better balance of work, personal, and kinky parts of life

What does growth in BDSM mean?

  • Learn more about not only different kinds of kinks, but also how to practice them using SSC and RACK protocols.
  • Feel pride and empowerment in your role; whether Dominant, submissive, or something else entirely.
  • Gain a deeper understanding of BDSM culture.
  • Take steps into being part of your own kinky community with the protection and support of the Dungeon.
  • Be a part of our small kinky family and learn from experienced lifestylers through open and honest conversation.

This is a lifestyle, not a reason to get off. This is a commitment.

Dommes are not kink dispensers, and subs are not doormats.
We are all human, and here to learn how to be better versions of ourselves.

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