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Abrasion Play

The Sensation Play Series What is Abrasion Play? What is the largest organ in the body? It’s your skin. Abrasion play is a form of sensation play. It is achieved by stimulating areas of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking, using your body, an abrasive substance, tools, materials and various household items to sensitize […]

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Dom(me)sLife Members Musings

Edge to Nowhere

creativeME Limerick Orgasms for me are really quite rare My Domme helped when one approached. “Whoa there!” With a twinkle she laughed Then she squeezed my shaft and now I am edging to nowhere By Currmudgeon – Dom(me)sLife Member

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Denial

creativeME Limerick A cage to my Domme I supplied Gently she slipped me inside She added the lock Then tickled my cock Now my orgasm forever denied By Currmudgeon – Dom(me)sLife Member

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The Dungeon Journey

The Arts Week

Shoutouts We would like to congratulate our newest permanent Dungeon sub, Danny! Way to go! Danny jumped in with both feet and has really embraced the lifestyle. Welcome to the F/family Danny! Our newest trial sub mark is doing a wonderful job, hard working, he has really hit the ground running. Keep up the good […]

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BDSM Education The Domme Daily

Weekly Topic

The Psychology of Kink August 26 2019 This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A […]

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BDSM Education Roleplay

Introduction to Age Play

Age Play is generally understood to be either a sexual or non-sexual type of role-playing where consenting adults identify with an age or age range different from their own chronological age. Within Age Play there are kinks and fetishes, as well as lifestyle identities, power exchange and dynamics. Ageplayers can role play in a wide […]

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Age Play – Acronyms

Next to each acronym, we have included the *BDSM capitalisation version as we have used both versions throughout our writing depending on the context of the acronym used.  *BDSM capitalization is the practice of capitalizing or using all lower-case pronouns to denote the role or status of BDSM participants. According to BDSM capitalization rules, proper […]

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Roleplay

Roleplay has been used in many different ways throughout the world for centuries. Ways such as reenacting an altercation for a police officer, taking on the role of another student in class as an experiment to see how another is perceived, taking on a fantasy person for your dungeons and dragons game. There are so […]

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Service Submission

Introduction Throughout your journey of kinks, fetishes and BDSM as a whole, you will likely have stumbled across the term service submission. At a glance it seems like a straightforward idea and for the most part, it is. However we are going to look into it all on a deeper level and really pick apart […]

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Cuckolding

Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as a kink founded in humiliation and inadequacy, but the reality is far different for most couples actively involved in it. Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving relationship and extends it to include one or more people who play a specific, sexual role within the relationship. […]

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BDSM Education Denial Fundamentals Uncategorized

Orgasm Denial – The Ultimate Torture for a Man

Orgasm denial: Pleasure as torture or torture from pleasure Beginning at the end, the physical impact and mental effects of an orgasm should be considered as the main argument surrounding the theory that denying it is the worst possible torture. At the point of orgasm, the point of no return has been reached. It doesn’t […]

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BDSM Education Fundamentals Ruined Uncategorized

Ruined Orgasms

Understanding what a ruined orgasm is… Ruined orgasms involve stimulating the body sexually so that the point of no return is reached causing orgasm. This is the point when the stimulation stops, the muscles and nerves react to the body’s natural impulses and release fluid regardless. The amount of convulsion and emission will depend on […]

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BDSM Education Fundamentals Post Orgasm Torture Uncategorized

Post Orgasm Torture

Immediately after an orgasm, manipulation of the genitals can be uncomfortable and even painful. Post orgasm torture (POT) can be performed on male or female anatomy although it will feel slightly different. The body is in its most sensitive and vulnerable state during and after orgasm as the sensations and heightened activity in the nerves […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides forced Orgasm Fundamentals

Forced Orgasms

A forced orgasm happens when a person tries not to cum or is reluctant to do so, but is powerless to stop it from happening. Forced orgasms can be a fun form of play on its own, or it can be used in tandem with other kinks like predicament play, bondage and sensation play. Forced […]

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Orgasm Control – Edging

Edging – more than just getting off If you hear someone talk about edging, unless they’re gardeners they are usually talking about a common form of orgasm control. ‘edging’ ‘surfing’ ‘peaking’ is building up to the point just before an orgasm and then reducing, changing or stopping all stimulation so that an orgasm isn’t achieved. […]