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BDSM Education Rope Series

Rope Tutorials

Compiled by Mistress Michelle and cupcake There is no better way to learn, experience and understand rope, rope bondage and shibari than by practicing by yourself. Gain skills and confidence by practicing common knots or following tutorials by some skilled riggers, knot masters and sailors.  By practicing self bondage tutorials you gain knowledge and experience, […]

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BDSM Education Rope Series

Rope Positions and Techniques

Rope Positions  There are three main ways that you can do rope; on the ground, partially suspended and fully suspended. From these locations any variation can be achieved with the only limits being flexibility, creativity and of course safety. Rope can be used to restrict movement, to grant access to sensitive body parts, or for […]

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BDSM Education Rope Series

Rope Ties & Knots

Knotty Knotty Bondage Ties The amazing thing about rope is the amount of knots there are, doing the same tie but with different knots can create a completely different look without changing much at all. While there are a number of basic ties that every rigger should have in their arsenal, rope can be used […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides Discord Classroom

Roleplay

Roleplay has been used in many different ways throughout the world for centuries. Ways such as reenacting an altercation for a police officer, taking on the role of another student in class as an experiment to see how another is perceived, taking on a fantasy person for your dungeons and dragons game. There are so […]

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Beginners Guides Clothing Discord Classroom Miscellaneous

Dressing the part

Clothing can help you create an identity and feel more assured of your sexuality. Indeed, if you look the part, it begins to sink in at a psychological level. In particular, many feel empowered by changing their appearance with makeup and clothes. When we put on our bondage gear, it’s symbolic; we occupy the role […]

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Service Submission

Introduction Throughout your journey of kinks, fetishes and BDSM as a whole, you will likely have stumbled across the term service submission. At a glance it seems like a straightforward idea and for the most part, it is. However we are going to look into it all on a deeper level and really pick apart […]

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Frenzy

When there is an increase in the availability, access, and active participation in kink, it causes a physical and psychological change that can alter the types of decisions we make and the type actions we take. The increased presence of endorphins and adrenaline can have an addictive effect over time and can create a headspace […]

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Cuckolding

Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as a kink founded in humiliation and inadequacy, but the reality is far different for most couples actively involved in it. Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving relationship and extends it to include one or more people who play a specific, sexual role within the relationship. […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides Discord Classroom

The Spirit of the Rule

In any dynamic there are usually some form of rules that have been pre agreed to which encompass things such as, daily routines, presentation, grooming, habits, speech, training, journals, clothing, chores and the list goes on. All of these rules have one key similarity and that is ‘The Spirit of the Rule’. This is the […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides Discord Classroom

Topping from the Bottom

Introduction There are many forms of exchange between a Dominant and a submissive in a D/s dynamic. The most common being communication, with that comes its own world of complications that you could run into. One of the more popular ones mentioned and discussed is Topping from the bottom and how to correct that style […]