Masturbation doesn’t vanish when you’re in a relationship. In fact, masturbation is a great way to understand exactly what you like, and to communicate it to a partner who’s watching you play. When each partner can see exactly what gets the other’s motor revving, cumming together (or separately) is much easier. Playing together can be […]
Toy care guide and cleaning advice Within Dommes Life, a practice that is well known and followed is SSC/RACK/PRICK. Why bring up SSC/RACK/PRICK when talking about toys you are probably wondering? Well, being safe in part means taking care of yourself and using safe toys to play with. Toy care is really quite easy if […]
Compiled by Mistress Michelle and cupcake There is no better way to learn, experience and understand rope, rope bondage and shibari than by practicing by yourself. Gain skills and confidence by practicing common knots or following tutorials by some skilled riggers, knot masters and sailors. By practicing self bondage tutorials you gain knowledge and experience, […]
Rope Positions There are three main ways that you can do rope; on the ground, partially suspended and fully suspended. From these locations any variation can be achieved with the only limits being flexibility, creativity and of course safety. Rope can be used to restrict movement, to grant access to sensitive body parts, or for […]
Knotty Knotty Bondage Ties The amazing thing about rope is the amount of knots there are, doing the same tie but with different knots can create a completely different look without changing much at all. While there are a number of basic ties that every rigger should have in their arsenal, rope can be used […]
There are many different types of rope to choose from when considering which rope might be right for you. Each type of rope has its own pros and cons, the biggest thing to consider when choosing rope is the ‘stretch’ of the rope. Rope that is going to be used in suspension should have zero […]
Knowing what you can and cannot do is vital in most areas of life. No matter what you’re into, kink is about consent, communication, and compromise. Before trying any new sex act, obtaining enthusiastic, continuous consent from all parties involved is a must. Your kinks may not perfectly align with your partner’s, and that’s okay. […]
When there is an increase in the availability, access, and active participation in kink, it causes a physical and psychological change that can alter the types of decisions we make and the type actions we take. The increased presence of endorphins and adrenaline can have an addictive effect over time and can create a headspace […]
What is Drop? During the course of a scene our bodies and our minds go through a series of changes, physiologically and well as psychologically. The excitement from participating actively in kinks and fetishes initiates a release of endorphins, adrenaline and several other hormones. Breathing increases and becomes shallow, the pulse rate increases, and the […]
RACK Understanding the risks is an important step to practicing kink responsibly, RACK attempts to address that need. Risk Aware Consensual Kink acknowledges that BDSM carries inherent risk, and places an emphasis on knowing what the unintended consequences are of engaging in a kinky activity. In order to ensure both parties are aware of the […]