Dom(me)’s Life Community Rules

  • All members must be at least 21 years of age. ID may be required to prove your age.
  • This is NOT Diva’s Dungeon, that is closed. This is not a task group or hookup group, don’t treat it like one.
  • Regular involvement is required to be an active member in our community. To be an active member you need to make an effort to engage in our general group chats, contribute to our daily lifestyle BDSM discussions and participate in activities.
    1. It is expected that you will write a full introduction within two days after joining. We always want to know more about our members and get to know each other.
    2. No lurking: Actively engage in our community, don’t passively watch.
    3. Inactive members will be removed with or without notice.
    4. The bot automatically removes inactive people.
  • Absolutely NO financial domination/submission. No wish lists, gift cards, tributes etc. are permitted within our community. 
  • Sending friend requests and/or direct messages (DM) without prior permission is not allowed.
    1. Always ask first.
    2. Saying my DM is open is against our rules, consent is always required.
  • Engaging in BDSM while intoxicated violates SSC/RACK guidelines and won’t be tolerated within our community.

We have a zero-tolerance for using drugs (including marijuana) or alcohol, while participating/chatting on our server.

  • You must be respectful to all community members at all times.
    1. Don’t be obnoxious, rude, arrogant, needy, dramatic, disruptive, offensive, abusive, thirsty, etc.
    2. Don’t push your role onto others. 
    3. Trolls will be banned! Contributions must be constructive, helpful and/or polite.
    4. Avoid using profanity, cursing/cussing or offensive language. Keep the chat respectful.
  • Address all members using their ‘screen name’ or preferred name.
    1. Respect preferred pronouns – refer to roles
    2. Don’t assume anyone’s gender identity based on their presentation.
    3. The use of titles is at your discretion but isn’t enforced.
  • Do not share, screenshot, save, or re-post any members’ personal details, videos, gifs, pictures, names or usernames.
  • Do not post/share pictures of others or children.
  • Do not post/share explicit pictures without a group Moderators prior consent. Remember your kink may not be other’s kink and may negatively trigger some members (e.g. blood, needles)

The Dungeon Hub

The Dungeon hub has additional NSFW channels available to 30+ day members that have participated regularly and shown they can be a good and safe member of our community. All Dungeon members have been approved by an Administrator and must maintain their level of participation, safe practices and community standards. Five day lurkers automatically lose their access. Dungeon access isn’t guaranteed, it’s a privilege, membership can and will be revoked if deemed necessary.

The Dungeon is not a free for all, nude is acceptable only if there is a BDSM theme or as part of an educational practical activity. We don’t want to see random dick and pussy pics without context, we aren’t that kind of server. You don’t walk into a IRL BDSM dungeon just to get naked, it’s not a sex club. If you have a specific educational topic, scene or task idea, refer to #📜dungeon-rules then reach out to an Administrator or Moderator.

We do our best to provide a safe environment for our long term members to be able to post NSFW kinky photos, activities, stories and shenanigans. The strict Dungeon access process and rules allows us to observe/vet someone before allowing them to see and post personal, sexual and kinky photos. This is for our members safety. After being approved by any Administrator you will be required to read and agree to the additional Dungeon rules to join. Membership isn’t guaranteed, it’s a privilege