I can recall a time when i simply wanted more. I had found an oasis of trust and dove in head first. This is not my typical behavior, i am meticulous by nature, calculating and cautious, which of course is the allure of the lifestyle. Taking risks, being bold and loud, i was in a […]
In my view, power exchange is simply handing over power of an aspect, or multiple aspects, of your life to your partner for them to control. Now, with that being said, there are various ways ones can engage in a power exchange relationship, and to varying degrees. And it doesn’t necessarily mean it has to […]
Say what you mean because it’s not a game. Although it may seem as though you are playing the role by communicating in the style you see as appropriate, you are truly playing a role. It is true that within power exchange, there is protocol that determines the words, the titles, and the format, but […]
I know right? What’s with millennials and their new ways of saying the same thing? (Ahlie means – i know right?) Millions of cliches support the use of slang, variety is the spice of life, walk a mile in… whatever, and i think changing our vocabulary is healthy and supports growth is a different way. […]
Mistress doesn’t like restraints. She likes to order Her subs to stand there, hold their position while She tortures their body with various implements of mass destruction. Floggers, whips, canes, paddles?? Not in this case, just 6 inches black Louboutin heels. AKA..the ballbusters! Watching Her slave stand there, holding his (well Her) balls up on […]
Effort doesn’t equal success, it’s a hard lesson to learn but a very valuable one when you expect an outcome based on your contribution. From childhood you hear expressions like just do your best, or you gave it your all, designed to give you a measurement of output that you can set as your goal. […]
Submissives in D/s relationship often feel the need to take responsibility over the happiness of their Dominant. It has nothing to do with topping from the bottom, or taking control, you can’t be responsible for your D’s happiness because it’s not your job. I could get into a Good Will Hunting rant on it’s not […]
This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A will require the submissives to share how […]
The Psychology of Kink August 26 2019 This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A […]
I don’t spend a lot of time looking at myself, but it doesn’t mean i don’t appreciate my body. Wearing panties for me is a symbol of my devotion to serve Mistress who chooses them, my willingness and pride in vulnerability. What it means to be naked, to look at myself, means really looking at […]