Tease and denial is the art of taking your sub/partner to dizzying heights of arousal, increasing sexual tension, desire and anticipation and keeping them there for a prolonged period of time making for an exciting power exchange. For the sake of education, I’m going to split T&D into two categorie When I’m referring to short […]
Chastity in the BDSM context is a form of Power Exchange, and can be used as sexual play or as a protocol within a dynamic.
Chemical play is a form of Sensation Play that involves the use of irritants to create various sensations before, during, or after play. The chemicals usually come in the form of a liquid, gel, oil or cream. When applied to sensitive areas like genitalia, nipples and anus the sensation can range from a mild tingle […]
The Sensation Play Series What is Abrasion Play? What is the largest organ in the body? It’s your skin. Abrasion play is a form of sensation play. It is achieved by stimulating areas of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking, using your body, an abrasive substance, tools, materials and various household items to sensitize […]
What is Figging? ‘Figging’ is the practice of using ginger root for stimulation. It is a form of sensation play, although it can also be considered a form of chemical play. Figging causes a moderate to fairly intense sensation that varies a lot from person to person but it causes a sensation quite unlike any […]
BDSM Chemical ‘All Natural’ Play Natural oils, herbs, spices, roots and seeds are great ways to incorporate different sensations into a scene while keeping things ‘all natural’. Think about the type of sensation you want to achieve; cool and tingly, hot and spicy, warm and relaxing and find a natural product to meet your needs. […]
What are Pervertibles? A pervertible is simply a non-kinky everyday item that can also be used in a kinky manner. Pervertibles range from sensual and pleasurable items to evil sadistic, GET THAT THING AWAY FROM ME, items. If you’ll look around right now there’s probably a handful or more of items that can be used […]
Impact Play Safety
Hands These are possibly the most commonly used impact “tool” out there. Always ready and available for play, our hands provide a stingy sensation for the most part, but a clenched fist or heavy blow is certainly more thuddy. Our hands are relatively safe to use as they have a larger surface area, are by […]
Clothing can help you create an identity and feel more assured of your sexuality. Indeed, if you look the part, it begins to sink in at a psychological level. In particular, many feel empowered by changing their appearance with makeup and clothes. When we put on our bondage gear, it’s symbolic; we occupy the role […]