Categories
BDSM Education Submissive Submissions

Communication in BDSM

Communication is not only a key factor for life,happiness and balance but in BDSM as well. Recently I did some research on mental health with BDSM and communication was one of the biggest factors for allowing those who practice the lifestyle to be more balanced and healthy mentally, which ties into this topic in many […]

Categories
BDSM Education Submissive Submissions

Journals and their meaning to me

There are a lot of writings about journals and how important they can be in a D/s relationship. I have read many over the years and a few have really struck me as either great resources to share or solid reminders of the meaning behind a journal. Funny enough though I personally never started one […]

Categories
BDSM Education Submissive Submissions

Sounding

Sounding. The name alone sent shivers down my spine. Whenever it was brought up in conversation I would quickly realize that I had something else to do and somewhere else to be. I mean really who would possibly want to put something into their penis… The visual combined with my imagination created all sorts of […]

Categories
BDSM Education Submissive Submissions

Anal Play and Prostate Massage

Why does it feel good? The opening of the anus is filled with nerve endings, and because the area may not be stimulated often, any pleasurable sensations there can made even more intense. Also, be cause it is advised to preform a slower approach when initially engaging in anal play, the build up can be […]

Categories
BDSM Education BDSM Myths

BDSM Myth: BDSM is Inherently Dangerous

On its face this statement is true, but an explanation is necessary. This is a blanket one size fits all general statement and as most stereotypical statements it doesn’t hold up when truly analyzed. Using the logic that made this statement you could argue that shooting fireworks, cooking a roast in a pressure cooker, or […]

Categories
BDSM Education Submissive Submissions

Alone with an orgasm

Alone with an orgasm Recently I had the opportunity as a group task to attempt to orgasm through anal stimulation alone. Now when I say alone I am referring to completely alone both in other types of stimulation and physically being alone. Of course I have had plenty of orgasms by myself, stroking a quick […]

Categories
BDSM Education BDSM Myths

People who engage in BDSM are all promiscuous

I was looking up a lot of sites and forums on the internet and picked my brain for the last days on how to approach this myth. There are no facts or studies about this anywhere i looked. Probably i have missed something because i tend to not see things that are right in my […]

Categories
BDSM Education BDSM Myths

Submissives have no control over what happens.

This myth, like most myths, is born out of ignorance, inexperience, and misunderstanding. In my opinion one of the main roots of this myth is a misunderstanding or lack of thought of how control or power is exchanged in a Dominant/submissive relationship. This myth stems from the assumption that the power, control, or influence that […]

Categories
BDSM Education BDSM Myths The Domme Daily

BDSM MYTHS: Only ‘gay’ men and/or ‘sluts’ engage in anal play

Shove it up your ass. Sit on it and rotate. Bend over. Drop the soap. Expressions all meant to belittle and insult, because only certain types of people would engage in anal sex. Well here’s the scoop, you don’t need to go to prison to learn the truth about anal sex, which is that it’s […]

Categories
BDSM Education Submissive Submissions

Impact Safe Zones

Safe zones in the BDSM context refer to the areas in which are safest to hit when doing impact play. these areas do not contain any organs and have the most meat to hit without causing an impact with the bones. The most universal safe zone is the butt! its big, meaty and just looks […]