Research is a critical component to developing new skills, expanding knowledge, and exploring new fetishes in a safe and thoughtful manner.
Therefore, research is a critical component of DommesLife. Education is a passion shared by all members of our community who freely share these resources so others can learn and grow.
When there is an increase in the availability, access, and active participation in kink, it causes a physical and psychological change that can alter the types of decisions we make and the type actions we take. The increased presence of endorphins and adrenaline can have an addictive effect over time and can create a headspace […]
In BDSM Aftercare is the recovery from a scene or play.
How to create your own personal aftercare plan
If you have a good sense of what your needs are, and you know the type of scene you are getting yourself into, it’s time to put your own list together of things you will need in order to create your own aftercare kit. The items in an aftercare kit will be different for everyone […]
What is Drop? During the course of a scene our bodies and our minds go through a series of changes, physiologically and well as psychologically. The excitement from participating actively in kinks and fetishes initiates a release of endorphins, adrenaline and several other hormones. Breathing increases and becomes shallow, the pulse rate increases, and the […]
What is subspace? Subspace is sometimes described as an altered headspace, a floaty feeling, total bliss. Subspace is hard to define but simple to understand as a combination of both mental and physical experiences. With the mental experience you can get complete relaxation, calmness, equilibrium, tranquillity and serenity. The physical part is caused by the […]
RACK Understanding the risks is an important step to practicing kink responsibly, RACK attempts to address that need. Risk Aware Consensual Kink acknowledges that BDSM carries inherent risk, and places an emphasis on knowing what the unintended consequences are of engaging in a kinky activity. In order to ensure both parties are aware of the […]
The most commonly used philosophy for evaluating acceptable kinky play is SSC, and it is a great distinction for those unfamiliar with BDSM to understand the difference between abuse and responsible kink practices. It dates back to the early 80s, and is simple in its basic principle of defining any kinky activity by asking; is […]
The Caregiver/little dynamic involves one partner (the D-type) taking on a parental type role, and the s-type taking on the role of someone younger than they actually are (the little). Littles range from babies to teenagers and can even change ages within a dynamic. A dynamic can be polyamorous or monogamous and can involve any […]
Age Play is generally understood to be either a sexual or non-sexual type of role-playing where consenting adults identify with an age or age range different from their own chronological age. Within Age Play there are kinks and fetishes, as well as lifestyle identities, power exchange and dynamics. Ageplayers can role play in a wide […]