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The Psychology of Kink August 26 2019 This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A […]

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A Beginner’s Guide to Butt Plugs

This guide is designed to give you the basics of what to look for in a butt plug, mistakes to avoid, and helpful suggestions for ensuring success in discovering the joy of plugging up your butt. It is important to have real toys Here’s what to look out for and why: A flared base on […]

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BDSM Education The Domme Daily

Active vs Passive Submission

Active submission means that a sub is actively engaged with their Dominant. This can be done though negotiation, scene planning, doing extra things above the expectations to make their Dominant happy. They understand that a dynamic is a journey and not the destination, seeking to grow with their Dominant and be part of the ongoing […]

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Floggers

Floggers are amazing impact toys. They can provide a variety of different feelings. As well as made from a variety of different materials. You can also easily improvise with various materials. Floggers can be thuddy, stingy, soft, rough, and even tickling. It all depending on length, weight of material, weight of falls, and number of […]

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A Beginner’s Guide to Aftercare

Aftercare is the recovery from a scene or play, where a set of actions help the mind and body relate to the change in physical and emotion energy expended. It is common for feelings of sadness or a sudden emotional response to occur in the hours, and sometimes days following a scene. Coming up with […]

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Creating an Aftercare Kit

If you have a good sense of what your needs are, and you know the type of scene you are getting yourself into, it’s time to put your own list together of things you will need in order to create your own aftercare kit. The items in an aftercare kit will be different for everyone […]

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Toy care, cleaning and lube guide

Toy care guide and cleaning advice Within Diva’s Dungeon a practice that is well known and followed is SSC. Why bring up SSC when talking about toys you are probably wondering? Well, being safe, sane and consensual in part means taking care of yourself and using safe toys to play with. Toy care is really […]

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Myth: You can tell if someone is part of the BDSM lifestyle based on what they look like

BDSM is an important influence on Fashion Since 50 Shades of Grey, BDSM has become more aware for the mainstream. This also lead in an increase of using BDSM clothes and styles in fashion. Designers already used elements of Punk, Goth and Rave cultures, whereas BDSM is no different. Items that were traditionally viewed as […]

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Impact and Bondage!! Oh My

Miss Seelieā€™s Week This week really made me think and analyze a lot about myself. I think it brought out some of the best in me. It meant a lot because I negotiated my first ever scene. I recognized my injuries and how it could impact play time. I got to combine impact, CBT, and […]

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Sounding

When I first heard about sounding it immediately went on my hard limits list. Largely I would say due to having absolutely no idea about it and the fear of putting something inside the penis. Phantom pain I guess would be the best way to describe it, even without trying it. Our mind works in […]