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BDSM Education Sensation Play

Temperature Play

Temperature play is a form of sensation play, using the physical reaction of your nerve endings to trigger a response. Any object or substance that can feel cool or be chilled, feel warm or be heated can be used in temperature play.  Temperature play is also a form of edge play, meaning with it carries […]

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BDSM Education Discord Classroom

Impact Play – Pervertibles

What are Pervertibles? A pervertible is simply a non-kinky everyday item that can also be used in a kinky manner. Pervertibles range from sensual and pleasurable items to evil sadistic, GET THAT THING AWAY FROM ME, items. If you’ll look around right now there’s probably a handful or more of items that can be used […]

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BDSM Education Discord Classroom

Impact Play – Safety

Impact Play Safety

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BDSM Education Discord Classroom Impact

Impact Play – Tools of the Trade

Hands These are possibly the most commonly used impact “tool” out there. Always ready and available for play, our hands provide a stingy sensation for the most part, but a clenched fist or heavy blow is certainly more thuddy. Our hands are relatively safe to use as they have a larger surface area, are by […]

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BDSM Education Impact

An Introduction to Impact Play

Impact play is more than just hitting someone; it can be a very sensual, physical, psychological, emotional, and sexual form of sensation play. Impact play is one of the most commonly known, vastly practiced and adored kinks within the community. Whether it’s an across-the-knee punishment, maintenance swats, warm up spanks or a perfectly mastered buildup […]

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BDSM Education Edge Play Fundamentals

Edge Play

Edge Play is one of those terms that seems to have two different meanings within the community. What constitutes edge play to one person, might seem like licking vanilla ice cream to another person.  Term One: Some people consider edge play to be an umbrella term for a list of kinks and fetishes considered to […]

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BDSM Education Fundamentals

Self Love

The act of masturbation is rarely understood as being about self-love – a sexual attraction to self. Rather, this solo act is typically regarded in the narrowest sense: as about alleviating tension (sexual or otherwise), or as providing oneself with a momentary sensory pleasure that is simple, uncomplicated and free. What does Self-love mean? Self-love […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides Fundamentals Mindset

Erotic Hypnosis

Being obsessed with finding new ways to reach climax is in the mind of most of the people for ages. Recently erotic hypnosis gains on popularity and there is a lot of information on the internet on how to experience this. Erotic Hypnosis is a guided meditation, either through another person or yourself alone, that […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides

Mutual Masturbation

Masturbation doesn’t vanish when you’re in a relationship. In fact, masturbation is a great way to understand exactly what you like, and to communicate it to a partner who’s watching you play. When each partner can see exactly what gets the other’s motor revving, cumming together (or separately) is much easier. Playing together can be […]

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BDSM Education Beginners Guides

Toy care, cleaning and lube guide

Toy care guide and cleaning advice Within Dommes Life, a practice that is well known and followed is SSC/RACK/PRICK. Why bring up SSC/RACK/PRICK when talking about toys you are probably wondering? Well, being safe in part means taking care of yourself and using safe toys to play with. Toy care is really quite easy if […]