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Subspace

What is subspace? Subspace is sometimes described as an altered headspace, a floaty feeling, total bliss. Subspace is hard to define but simple to understand as a combination of both mental and physical experiences. With the mental experience you can get complete relaxation, calmness, equilibrium, tranquillity and serenity. The physical part is caused by the […]

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The Fundamentals Series – Drop

What is Drop? During the course of a scene our bodies and our minds go through a series of changes, physiologically and well as psychologically. The excitement from participating actively in kinks and fetishes initiates a release of endorphins, adrenaline and several other hormones. Breathing increases and becomes shallow, the pulse rate increases, and the […]

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Post Orgasm Torture

Immediately after an orgasm, manipulation of the genitals can be uncomfortable and even painful. Post orgasm torture (POT) can be performed on male or female anatomy although it will feel slightly different. The body is in its most sensitive and vulnerable state during and after orgasm as the sensations and heightened activity in the nerves […]

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Forced Orgasms

A forced orgasm happens when a person tries not to cum or is reluctant to do so, but is powerless to stop it from happening. Forced orgasms can be a fun form of play on its own, or it can be used in tandem with other kinks like predicament play, bondage and sensation play. Forced […]

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Orgasm Denial – The Ultimate Torture for a Man

Orgasm denial: Pleasure as torture or torture from pleasure Beginning at the end, the physical impact and mental effects of an orgasm should be considered as the main argument surrounding the theory that denying it is the worst possible torture. At the point of orgasm, the point of no return has been reached. It doesn’t […]

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Ruined Orgasms

Understanding what a ruined orgasm is… Ruined orgasms involve stimulating the body sexually so that the point of no return is reached causing orgasm. This is the point when the stimulation stops, the muscles and nerves react to the body’s natural impulses and release fluid regardless. The amount of convulsion and emission will depend on […]

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Orgasm Control – Edging

Edging – more than just getting off If you hear someone talk about edging, unless they’re gardeners they are usually talking about a common form of orgasm control. ‘edging’ ‘surfing’ ‘peaking’ is building up to the point just before an orgasm and then reducing, changing or stopping all stimulation so that an orgasm isn’t achieved. […]

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Orgasm Control – Tease and Denial

Tease and denial is the art of taking your sub/partner to dizzying heights of arousal, increasing sexual tension, desire and anticipation and keeping them there for a prolonged period of time making for an exciting power exchange. For the sake of education, I’m going to split T&D into two categorie When I’m referring to short […]

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Orgasm Control – Chastity

Chastity in the BDSM context is a form of Power Exchange, and can be used as sexual play or as a protocol within a dynamic.

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Impact Play – Pervertibles

What are Pervertibles? A pervertible is simply a non-kinky everyday item that can also be used in a kinky manner. Pervertibles range from sensual and pleasurable items to evil sadistic, GET THAT THING AWAY FROM ME, items. If you’ll look around right now there’s probably a handful or more of items that can be used […]