The concept of having greatness thrust upon you, and living up to expectations is one that intrigues me and always has. I rue the idea that expectations are something to aspire to, when so many feel anxious to do so. However, being given a larger than life goal or persona, it is often the case […]
Growing up i spent time with my grandmother, getting chores done, running errands and she loved going to the bakery for bread. Each day, one roll or a danish for desert, something that she could have gotten once a week but the experience made it more enjoyable to eat, and naturally it was fresh each […]
We have all felt at some point in time that our voices, opinions, or feelings are not being heard, acknowledged or appreciated. Myself, i feel a lot of the time i express an opinion or feeling without explaining its origin. The result is that i often feel misunderstood, and one cannot feel acknowledgement or appreciation […]
It’s fairly regular for me to have to stuff something into my pants. That’s what makes these panties special 😉 Mistress asked me to wear my garters to work today and i thought, oh fun the blue panties will go nice with my white stockings, under my blue jeans, and nobody will know what a […]
This was not in reaction to, but is nonetheless a good response to an advance i received based on nothing more than the protocol and the practice of submissive males wearing panties. I have often said that my mood can be affected by the clothing i wear, but the purpose to me doesn’t change. Underneath […]
Some of the earliest tools were developed to be precise and efficient, bows and arrows have existed for over 20,000 years and variations are still used today. Simple solutions solve simple problems and reach goals efficiently. If you feel the tools you use are no longer effective, before seeking new ones, evaluate what goals have […]
Being a submissive or a slave can be all encompassing, all engaging and all fulfilling. Similarly chastity, as an extension, places parameters around arousal, sexual tension, and release. The thought of enjoyment outside of submission, or control for many over time is undesirable, and can be raught in anxiety. Two reasons for this are the […]
That iconic track from Rocky Three, it was written for the movie and it was adjusted and recorded to fit just right. Prior to that song being in the movie, another song of equal stature stood in its place as a template for what would fit the scene, what would fit the mood. So often […]
Summer means it’s wedding season, time to surround yourself with beautiful things in uncomfortable situations. The “in” designs include bringing the outdoors in, many a unique hay/grass inspired decoration atop a burlap runner, you run your fingers over it but only to confirm its gruff exterior feels as itchy as it looks. Your table mates […]
Delicate things need to be handled with care, to be honest i consider us all delicate things. There are a lot of romantic themes in BDSM, chivalry and tradition in etiquette and protocol, sacrifice and duty in selflessness and ownership, the dynamic between D/s itself is at its core fragile and unpredictable. If left unattended, […]