It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]
There are many approaches newbies will take, and there are many reactions to expect from submissives according to their demeanour. New subs are very appealing to Dominants, but it really depends on the right fit. Exploring new kinks, fetishes and ideas for the first time is exhilarating and can be a very powerful experience if […]
I used to take pride in my ability to conceal thoughts, as someone who does not easily display emotion i would often hear others comment about how they could not tell what i was thinking. It gave me an incredible ability to hear others, balance their emotions against the words they use, but the best […]
Taking initiative can be an empowering experience for a submissive if they have the trust of their Dominant. There are so many questions a submissive asks before making an independent decision on behalf of themselves and their D, but the reward is a sense of pride. There is the dreaded fear of topping and passive […]
I had never heard this term before – one night i observed a submissive in a public scene – i immediately understood when he communicated he was blissed out what he meant. How perfectly is described the state of mind, and such a perfect word to explain his level of enjoyment, the type of subspace […]
There is a middle ground in the communication between Dominant and submissive where creation lies, where ideas become negotiations, and scenes play out uninhibited. Scripting such performances can feel inauthentic, and presenting a blank page lacks enticement. What, where, when and why, these are the most important questions for a D/s discussion. What it should […]
I got carried away with these pictures. I was late for work, there was an important meeting, i was in a very brief panic, but i stopped to review the pictures, i maintained the protocol and through prioritization and effort i made it on time, in fact i was early. My mind put the critical […]
I have a tough time exposing my fetishes outside of the scene and i want to find ways of overcoming that issue. The most challenging thing for me to do is feel submissive in a place of uncertainty. Consent has always been at odds with a desire to freely express my submissive personality. Does anyone […]
The concept of having greatness thrust upon you, and living up to expectations is one that intrigues me and always has. I rue the idea that expectations are something to aspire to, when so many feel anxious to do so. However, being given a larger than life goal or persona, it is often the case […]
This was not in reaction to, but is nonetheless a good response to an advance i received based on nothing more than the protocol and the practice of submissive males wearing panties. I have often said that my mood can be affected by the clothing i wear, but the purpose to me doesn’t change. Underneath […]