Time to move on or time is a luxury, people move in and out of our lives and our circles on an ongoing basis, we should expect it and encourage it. The things that i need have never changed, but they way i want to achieve them has. One of those needs i have is […]
We have all felt at some point in time that our voices, opinions, or feelings are not being heard, acknowledged or appreciated. Myself, i feel a lot of the time i express an opinion or feeling without explaining its origin. The result is that i often feel misunderstood, and one cannot feel acknowledgement or appreciation […]
It’s fairly regular for me to have to stuff something into my pants. That’s what makes these panties special 😉 Mistress asked me to wear my garters to work today and i thought, oh fun the blue panties will go nice with my white stockings, under my blue jeans, and nobody will know what a […]
This was not in reaction to, but is nonetheless a good response to an advance i received based on nothing more than the protocol and the practice of submissive males wearing panties. I have often said that my mood can be affected by the clothing i wear, but the purpose to me doesn’t change. Underneath […]
Delicate things need to be handled with care, to be honest i consider us all delicate things. There are a lot of romantic themes in BDSM, chivalry and tradition in etiquette and protocol, sacrifice and duty in selflessness and ownership, the dynamic between D/s itself is at its core fragile and unpredictable. If left unattended, […]
Securely fastened to the hard wood pole, splinters digging into his back with each move. The hemp rope digging it way into his chest with each breathe he takes, running down and under his painful swollen balls and back up and around securely holding him in position. Each Mistress taking turns swatting at his swollen red […]
There is a common misconception that Dominants instinctively know what to do and have the memory of elephants. Many make claims to support this theory, but the truth is the most involved and experienced Dominants usually set goals and challenges for their subs because they have the same expectations for themselves. Many submissives view the […]
Protocols are not just for reaffirming obedience and compliance, they are an important part of maintaining a balanced headspace. Managing your daily routine can be an empowering experience, it can help you find time to do the things you enjoy the most, and reward yourself for doing the things you enjoy the least. There is […]
Sometimes i wonder if anyone is watching, when i do things, when i say things, that are for the benefit of others. Our reason for doing things for others should never matter, but it is natural to want our efforts to be recognized. My suggestion – appreciate that you had the chance. When we do […]
My mindset is such that i promote the positive and it is an ongoing dialogue – so yeah, you’re not alone in talking to yourself. If you read out loud in your head however, then you should really consider… just kidding, i do that too. What i say to myself are positive thoughts to motivate […]