I heard a Domme describe how She enjoys knowing how uncomfortable Their submissive is during the day, wearing some sexy little number, pulling and pinching and crushing very sensitive parts. Throughout the day it would be impossible to ignore the feeling, a constant reminder of Her, but that is only one example of being uncomfortable. […]
We use our hands for just about everything, our fingers the extension that makes it possible to bt tactile and precise. The hands don’t help the mind, it’s not a symbiotic relationship between the two, but we can invent and we can find ways to place hints. Connected to the hands are out wrists, vulnerable […]
Those boys in Peter Pan who ended up in Neverland were the ones who fell from their cradles in the nursery. After going unclaimed for 7 days they are sent to Neverland where they never grow up. Girls are never lost because they are far too clever according to the leader of the Lost Boys, […]
One of the goals for today is updating my reward chart, it’s a list of possible outcomes that after completing a task i can enjoy as a reward. When my reward board was created, it had varying rewards ranging from physical pleasure to fetishes and new toy purchases. Over time i have found the reward […]
A dissolving of fabric, beginning with a small rip – it holds as long as you allow, while it moves over you – revealing more as you stretch the seams to fit. One quick tear in any place and it will quickly unravel, leaving you exposed and vulnerable. The struggle is deciding how long you […]
I chose the term slingshot to fit a narrative, but i have heard the term selective submission used more commonly to describe the act of choosing when and where a sub serves. Something i have been considering is how effectively i apply consistency to my effort. I believe effort behind every action as a submissive […]
Whether it’s lying in my bed or enjoying a glass of warm milk, there’s nothing quite like the feeling of warmth on my skin. I can enjoy temperature play in all forms, but warmth – not heat – is where i want to be always. Even after sweating bullets, a shower for me is never […]
How does it make you feel? That’s what i want to know. When i see something that excites me, i want to explore deeper, understand why i have the feeling, discover the size and depth of the excitement. The most exciting is something new that i have never experienced before, and grows in spades if […]
There’s an excitement and energy that comes from trying something new, whether it’s a new person who excites you, a new fetish you want to explore, a limit you want to push, our goals help keep us moving forward. A balanced approach has to be maintained while establishing goals, ensuring that you don’t set yourself […]
Setting the table is a fitting description for how many submissives attempt to get what they want without asking. The concept is creating a pleasing environment for the D, so they either seek to reward the submissive or are simply more likely to be in a playful mood. So why not simply ask? Many submissives […]