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What did you expect?

It goes without saying what you thought of the BDSM community is not what you found, and what you thought you would like is different from reality, and the journey is something that takes a life of its own. Those are the given inconsistencies, but others can be much more easy to spot, the expectations […]

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Drop the act

I used to take pride in my ability to conceal thoughts, as someone who does not easily display emotion i would often hear others comment about how they could not tell what i was thinking. It gave me an incredible ability to hear others, balance their emotions against the words they use, but the best […]

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The ability to improvise is a sub-surprise

Taking initiative can be an empowering experience for a submissive if they have the trust of their Dominant. There are so many questions a submissive asks before making an independent decision on behalf of themselves and their D, but the reward is a sense of pride.  There is the dreaded fear of topping and passive […]

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#Blissed

I had never heard this term before – one night i observed a submissive in a public scene – i immediately understood when he communicated he was blissed out what he meant. How perfectly is described the state of mind, and such a perfect word to explain his level of enjoyment, the type of subspace […]

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Often imitated never duplicated

Those intense moments that you recall vividly, the sounds, the smells, the feelings, stay with you, always will, and serve a purpose beyond their intent. It’s not a defined purpose, they serve a reminder of exactly those sensations, but you are the one who decided the meaning. Part of a good self care routine includes […]

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Leaving little to the imagination

There is a middle ground in the communication between Dominant and submissive where creation lies, where ideas become negotiations, and scenes play out uninhibited. Scripting such performances can feel inauthentic, and presenting a blank page lacks enticement. What, where, when and why, these are the most important questions for a D/s discussion. What it should […]

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Pearls of passion

I got carried away with these pictures. I was late for work, there was an important meeting, i was in a very brief panic, but i stopped to review the pictures, i maintained the protocol and through prioritization and effort i made it on time, in fact i was early. My mind put the critical […]

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Bridges make good neighbors

Time to move on or time is a luxury, people move in and out of our lives and our circles on an ongoing basis, we should expect it and encourage it. The things that i need have never changed, but they way i want to achieve them has. One of those needs i have is […]

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Without a snap

I realized recently when i put on briefs – undergarments designed for males, which on occasion i do wear for purely clinical reasons i assure you with permission of course – that i snap the waist band every time. It happens as naturally as breathing, and to be perfectly honest, i have no idea when […]

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Cheesecloth

Something so light and textured rolling over my skin, cheesecloth i know was intended for more industrial purposes, but it has always looked to me like something i want to touch. Underestimated is the power of touch, the feeling that something is barely there when it most certainly is covering a wide spanse.  Without light […]