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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but lace will erase the scowl on my face

When we let words hold power of us, we reduce our own self worth, and indeed our thick skin to be paper thin and translucent. Referring to ourselves negatively, we attempt to hide the impact those words hold over us, but claiming them first before others can. When we respond to negative words from others, […]

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Cover me up

There’s a song i love by Jason Isbel with this title, and the chorus goes; “cover me up, and know your’re enough, to use me for good”, it speaks to me and the way i am feel vulnerable at the wisp of a breath from Mistress at any given time.  What struck me yesterday was […]

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The delicate nature of ribbons

Bows can be so pretty, but ribbons don’t always stand for joy. Something seemingly delicate and frail can hold so much power if placed on a pedestal.  Holding together important gifts and garments ribbons can bind and prevent things from unravelling and falling apart. Ribbons can carry meaning, symbolic signs of hope or cut when […]

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Pretty cocky

It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]

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Twisted. Sister!

Sometimes the things we see as strange or over the top in others are the things we could learn the most from.  I am someone who struggles to speak in front of others, i search for the right words, i wonder if my meaning is clear. Those who blab on freely without thinking and say […]

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Isn’t it worth it?

We talk of needs yet so many are quick to dismiss them when obstacles appear. When are you going to be free of obstacles? When would it be a good time for you to fulfill your needs exactly? As a manager i am presented with obstacles daily and i respond to all problems presented to […]

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Pulling away – how to manage time off

Take time off is important, whether it is a few hours a day, a few days, or an extended period of time, it helps us recalibrate, recharge, and gives us perspective and appreciate what we have to come back to. It can be a challenge to take time away from things that are routine or […]

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Calming the farm

I can recall a time when i simply wanted more. I had found an oasis of trust and dove in head first. This is not my typical behavior, i am meticulous by nature, calculating and cautious, which of course is the allure of the lifestyle. Taking risks, being bold and loud, i was in a […]

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Let’s get real

Say what you mean because it’s not a game. Although it may seem as though you are playing the role by communicating in the style you see as appropriate, you are truly playing a role. It is true that within power exchange, there is protocol that determines the words, the titles, and the format, but […]

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Ahlie?

I know right? What’s with millennials and their new ways of saying the same thing? (Ahlie means – i know right?) Millions of cliches support the use of slang, variety is the spice of life, walk a mile in… whatever, and i think changing our vocabulary is healthy and supports growth is a different way. […]