Those intense moments that you recall vividly, the sounds, the smells, the feelings, stay with you, always will, and serve a purpose beyond their intent. It’s not a defined purpose, they serve a reminder of exactly those sensations, but you are the one who decided the meaning. Part of a good self care routine includes […]
There is a middle ground in the communication between Dominant and submissive where creation lies, where ideas become negotiations, and scenes play out uninhibited. Scripting such performances can feel inauthentic, and presenting a blank page lacks enticement. What, where, when and why, these are the most important questions for a D/s discussion. What it should […]
I got carried away with these pictures. I was late for work, there was an important meeting, i was in a very brief panic, but i stopped to review the pictures, i maintained the protocol and through prioritization and effort i made it on time, in fact i was early. My mind put the critical […]
Time to move on or time is a luxury, people move in and out of our lives and our circles on an ongoing basis, we should expect it and encourage it. The things that i need have never changed, but they way i want to achieve them has. One of those needs i have is […]
I realized recently when i put on briefs – undergarments designed for males, which on occasion i do wear for purely clinical reasons i assure you with permission of course – that i snap the waist band every time. It happens as naturally as breathing, and to be perfectly honest, i have no idea when […]
Something so light and textured rolling over my skin, cheesecloth i know was intended for more industrial purposes, but it has always looked to me like something i want to touch. Underestimated is the power of touch, the feeling that something is barely there when it most certainly is covering a wide spanse. Without light […]
Opposable thumbs are a gift to humans because of the ability to master the use of tools, genitals, and also the ability to knead and manipulate sore muscles in a relaxing massage. They are however fleeting, a tease, and perhaps a form of unintended denial. How often have you really had a massage that lasted […]
Those movies where the friends dare each other to go into a haunted house on occasion depict scenes of triumph and moments of confidence and achievement. It’s typically not a mission participants willingly sign up for. What i recall the most about those scenes are two things. 1. The hero / protagonist usually carried something […]
I like to challenge myself sometimes to prove the argument for alternative lines of thinking because i myself play by the rules, am a nice guy, and generally fall into the category of doing what i am supposed to do. So what’s so important about winning? It’s all about having fun, integrity, teamwork and collective […]
I have a tough time exposing my fetishes outside of the scene and i want to find ways of overcoming that issue. The most challenging thing for me to do is feel submissive in a place of uncertainty. Consent has always been at odds with a desire to freely express my submissive personality. Does anyone […]