Hemp Jute RopeIt ties me up Feels so good Tight around me Intoxicating smell Makes me go Tie me all up Bind my limbs Make me helpless Make me Yours With that hemp jute rope –Mark Mostly untreated jute. Have tried with some cotton rope but it wasn’t very good. My knots need a lot […]
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Struggle all you want
Whatever your kinks, your role, your current status, you will struggle. What did you expect? I started into the lifestyle because i was complacent, allowing things i had determined as needs to go unfulfilled and desires to go unexplored. So it’s no surprise there will be days where we struggle, the amazing thing about BDSM […]
If i tried to sell a rocket dildo, i can almost guarantee that people would buy it. There’s an extreme element to some fetishes where rational application of a device is secondary to the symbolic nature of it’s immensity. I have met many subs who proudly present their massive insertables for use only to discover […]
It can be difficult to understand how someone can be passionate about the same things for a sustained length of time and still find it enjoyable. Careers often are formed or abandoned based on the fear of combining passion and pleasure with growth and development, similarly kinks and fetishes can be enjoyed and expanded in […]
I decided to focus my research around the benefits of participating in BDSM from an emotional and mental state of well being, what the psychological effects are, and how to get the most out of BDSM to promote a healthy mindset. The first article examines kinks and fetishes, how they impact the mind and what […]
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What did you expect?
It goes without saying what you thought of the BDSM community is not what you found, and what you thought you would like is different from reality, and the journey is something that takes a life of its own. Those are the given inconsistencies, but others can be much more easy to spot, the expectations […]
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D-types and their lists
There is a common misconception that Dominants instinctively know what to do and have the memory of elephants. Many make claims to support this theory, but the truth is the most involved and experienced Dominants usually set goals and challenges for their subs because they have the same expectations for themselves. Many submissives view the […]
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Smooth skin secrets
I’ve done research and according to everything i have read my daily routine in the shower is as good as i can do for taking care of my skin, but i feel like there are tips and tricks out here i don’t know about. If you’re reading this if you have any, please share. My […]
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Whack a moles and glorious holes
Trying new things can be… trying. I love surprises, i am also the type of person who learns from hands on experiences and trial and error. In seeking out new experiences, i tend to look for things that are attainable, but even experiences that are easily within reach and be difficult and have obstacles. I […]
It’s common for submissives to become passive when it comes to understanding what is behind many of the finer details of BDSM. In part this is due to a desire to be given permission to experience it fetishes, or seek only details that are of interest to a Dominant. Research however, is important in BDSM […]