The Sensation Play Series What is Abrasion Play? What is the largest organ in the body? It’s your skin. Abrasion play is a form of sensation play. It is achieved by stimulating areas of the skin by rubbing, scratching, or pricking, using your body, an abrasive substance, tools, materials and various household items to sensitize […]
creativeME Limerick Orgasms for me are really quite rare My Domme helped when one approached. “Whoa there!” With a twinkle she laughed Then she squeezed my shaft and now I am edging to nowhere By Currmudgeon – Dom(me)sLife Member
creativeME Limerick A cage to my Domme I supplied Gently she slipped me inside She added the lock Then tickled my cock Now my orgasm forever denied By Currmudgeon – Dom(me)sLife Member
Shoutouts We would like to congratulate our newest permanent Dungeon sub, Danny! Way to go! Danny jumped in with both feet and has really embraced the lifestyle. Welcome to the F/family Danny! Our newest trial sub mark is doing a wonderful job, hard working, he has really hit the ground running. Keep up the good […]
The Psychology of Kink August 26 2019 This week we are exploring the psychology of kink in the Dungeon. Exploring the meaning behind different feelings through researching and understanding the connection to the mind behind the various aspects of D/s, as well as kinks and fetishes. The tasks for this week assigned by Lady A […]
For as long as there has been sex, there has been kink. One of the earliest images of erotic whipping came from 490 B.C. in the Etruscan Tomb of Whipping (Lazio, Italy), with stories and poems describing sexual punishment and use of pain in arousal dating back even further. The Kama Sutra, for example, describes […]
Power exchange dynamics have been part of relationships for ever, BDSM is an acronym meant to serve as a catch-all term for the spectrum of kink relationships in one which one person is acknowledged as the Dominant partner and the other as the submissive. In any given BDSM relationship, there may or may not be […]
Masturbation doesn’t vanish when you’re in a relationship. In fact, masturbation is a great way to understand exactly what you like, and to communicate it to a partner who’s watching you play. When each partner can see exactly what gets the other’s motor revving, cumming together (or separately) is much easier. Playing together can be […]
Toy care guide and cleaning advice Within Dommes Life, a practice that is well known and followed is SSC/RACK/PRICK. Why bring up SSC/RACK/PRICK when talking about toys you are probably wondering? Well, being safe in part means taking care of yourself and using safe toys to play with. Toy care is really quite easy if […]
Compiled by Mistress Michelle and cupcake There is no better way to learn, experience and understand rope, rope bondage and shibari than by practicing by yourself. Gain skills and confidence by practicing common knots or following tutorials by some skilled riggers, knot masters and sailors. By practicing self bondage tutorials you gain knowledge and experience, […]
Rope Positions There are three main ways that you can do rope; on the ground, partially suspended and fully suspended. From these locations any variation can be achieved with the only limits being flexibility, creativity and of course safety. Rope can be used to restrict movement, to grant access to sensitive body parts, or for […]
Knotty Knotty Bondage Ties The amazing thing about rope is the amount of knots there are, doing the same tie but with different knots can create a completely different look without changing much at all. While there are a number of basic ties that every rigger should have in their arsenal, rope can be used […]
There are many different types of rope to choose from when considering which rope might be right for you. Each type of rope has its own pros and cons, the biggest thing to consider when choosing rope is the ‘stretch’ of the rope. Rope that is going to be used in suspension should have zero […]
Knowing what you can and cannot do is vital in most areas of life. No matter what you’re into, kink is about consent, communication, and compromise. Before trying any new sex act, obtaining enthusiastic, continuous consent from all parties involved is a must. Your kinks may not perfectly align with your partner’s, and that’s okay. […]
The Sensation Play Series Nipple Play “My face is up here,” the Domme corrects her sub as he fixates on her chest. Truth be told though, breasts and nice pecs (pectoralis muscles) can easily draw anyone’s gaze (men aren’t the only people who stare at chests!). Breasts and nipples can be nice to look at […]