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Getting let out of the cage to stretch

Being a submissive or a slave can be all encompassing, all engaging and all fulfilling. Similarly chastity, as an extension, places parameters around arousal, sexual tension, and release. The thought of enjoyment outside of submission, or control for many over time is undesirable, and can be raught in anxiety. Two reasons for this are the […]

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Eye of the Tiger

That iconic track from Rocky Three, it was written for the movie and it was adjusted and recorded to fit just right. Prior to that song being in the movie, another song of equal stature stood in its place as a template for what would fit the scene, what would fit the mood.  So often […]

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Burlap and bows

Summer means it’s wedding season, time to surround yourself with beautiful things in uncomfortable situations. The “in” designs include bringing the outdoors in, many a unique hay/grass inspired decoration atop a burlap runner, you run your fingers over it but only to confirm its gruff exterior feels as itchy as it looks. Your table mates […]

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Take me like a princess

Delicate things need to be handled with care, to be honest i consider us all delicate things. There are a lot of romantic themes in BDSM, chivalry and tradition in etiquette and protocol, sacrifice and duty in selflessness and ownership, the dynamic between D/s itself is at its core fragile and unpredictable.   If left unattended, […]

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D-types and their lists

There is a common misconception that Dominants instinctively know what to do and have the memory of elephants. Many make claims to support this theory, but the truth is the most involved and experienced Dominants usually set goals and challenges for their subs because they have the same expectations for themselves. Many submissives view the […]

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The comfort in routine

Protocols are not just for reaffirming obedience and compliance, they are an important part of maintaining a balanced headspace. Managing your daily routine can be an empowering experience, it can help you find time to do the things you enjoy the most, and reward yourself for doing the things you enjoy the least. There is […]

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Feeding those trolls

We hold the power over out feelings and we always will, until we allow someone to assert their  feelings over top our own. The old adage – if you ignore it, they will go away – is actually true. The power you have is how you respond. When emotions get involved it is usually at […]

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In appreciation of appreciation

Sometimes i wonder if anyone is watching, when i do things, when i say things, that are for the benefit of others. Our reason for doing things for others should never matter, but it is natural to want our efforts to be recognized. My suggestion – appreciate that you had the chance. When we do […]

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Smile

It is as simple as it sounds. When someone smiles over the phone, you can hear it. When someone smiles when you kiss them, you can taste it. When you surprise someone from behind, when you cover their eyes with their cheeks, their nose, you can feel it. When someone smiles, you smile. Smile because […]

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The calm before

My mindset is such that i promote the positive and it is an ongoing dialogue – so yeah, you’re not alone in talking to yourself. If you read out loud in your head however, then you should really  consider… just kidding, i do that too. What i say to myself are positive thoughts to motivate […]