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This guide is designed to give you the tools required in order to begin having enjoyable anal play using sex toys. There are suggestions for how to select toys, how to properly and safely maintain them, and finally a guide for how to begin using and enjoying them. Before you begin Selecting your toy: Starting with […]
Cotton Cotton is a good choice of rope for those who want a soft feel without the expense of some of the more high end types. Cotton is a good choice for beginners, it’s cheap, easily available and light to carry. It’s easy to work work, feels soft to touch, and has a little stretch. […]
Before engaging in impact play, there are a couple considerations, and some essential items to ensure safety as well as enjoyment. Warm Up As with any BDSM activity, start low and slow, especially with impact play. Sudden sharp blows without warm up strokes is very rarely considered pleasurable by most SM standards and can also […]
Choosing prostate stimulation as a topic seemed like a great idea because it is something that is commonly misunderstood, it rarely gets talked about in detail, safety is very important and it is something that I enjoy greatly! It’s something that you can really get into ? hehe First off let’s discuss what, where and […]
As a new kink topic I decided to explore the possibility and ways for male multiple orgasms. My mind was blown at the amount of information on this topic and the fact that it’s never really discussed. Very excited that this topic came up, allowing me the opportunity to dig into it deeper. I really […]
I picked Auralism as my kink topic this time and there isn’t a lot of information out there about it compared to many other kinks. Basically this is arousal through sound whether that sounds is voice, music or even having others hear you. In reality this is considered to be more of a fetish than […]
First let’s define – suspension bondage is considered a form of sexual bondage. Generally a “bottom” will be bound by a “top” – rigger; and the bound person is hung from a suspension point or points. There are two main types; partial and full and generally accepted three main positions; vertical, horizontal, inverted. That being […]
Subspace is a combination of endorphins and other chemicals caused by a deep level of intimacy and arousal that creates an almost drug like high for most. It is usually found during an intense scene and the submissive may seem completely out of it, even unaware to different levels as to what is going on […]
First understand that anal play is enjoyed by both females and males and regardless of sexual orientation. Woman find anal stimulation pleasurable because the G-spot can be indirectly stimulated, while men may find it enjoyable since it directly stimulates their P-spot. There are various forms of anal play, which include anal fingering, anal fisting, anal […]
What is ball stretching and why? Ball stretching is done for many reasons. Some enjoy the aesthetics and ball envy of having a pair of low hangers, while others enjoy the swing of a pendulous pair of balls. Others will declare they enjoy the feeling of an elongated orgasm. Personally I love all of the […]