I am all about nicknames, for most of my life i have had one to the extent that some of my closest friends went years without knowing that it wasn’t my real name. It’s a name i associate with my youth, with accomplishments of the past and i can quickly assume a lighter more jovial […]
Someone commented to me about my inner dialogue, sharing those thoughts that happen at certain times but i don’t know if it quite captures the voice and the spirit of what it hear. It’s based on the situation and where it comes from, and it’s an interesting view that says a lot about my submissive […]
Pride can sometimes prevent us from making sound decisions, whether it is decisions in sexual practices and sexual partners, or engaging in fetishes and scenes. Something often overlooked is the role of the protector, and the need for having someone to help evaluate situations that could place you in harm. When the discussion of exploring […]
i have written before about selfless and selfish. Yesterday’s glitter task uncovered some clarity for me. It reminded me who i truly am, a submissive. i live to serve. It is my place and what makes me happy. i have often wondered if i should be wearing panties or wait till i am asked. i […]
I am addressing all of you who choose to read this, and i am thankful that you do. Recently i started posting my blog publicly and not just to our Dungeon website, a trove of information about our private Femdom group and resources for public consumption. It can be exhausting. Confronting readers, whether i am […]
Freaky Friday i have not kept it secret how horny i have been feeling all week. Never i gone through something like this before. It is different though. Usually a horny guy wants a release, but that is not how i feel. It has increased my desire to be useful. After yesterday’s writing combined with […]
If someone came up to you and said: “I want you to go get the messiest thing in world, smear it all over yourself first thing in the morning, don’t clean it off until the end of the day so it gets into everything, your clothes, your house, your car, your bed, your hair your […]
The anonymity of social media has led to new behaviours and created new norms that we accept as a society – though happily most of them have not made their way into our mainstream lives. The pervasive ‘dic pic’ for instance hasn’t become an invitation to whip it out over coffee. However, it’s an interesting […]
I heard a Domme describe how She enjoys knowing how uncomfortable Their submissive is during the day, wearing some sexy little number, pulling and pinching and crushing very sensitive parts. Throughout the day it would be impossible to ignore the feeling, a constant reminder of Her, but that is only one example of being uncomfortable. […]
We use our hands for just about everything, our fingers the extension that makes it possible to bt tactile and precise. The hands don’t help the mind, it’s not a symbiotic relationship between the two, but we can invent and we can find ways to place hints. Connected to the hands are out wrists, vulnerable […]