Black is a shade, not a color. When I presented three black pairs of panties to Mistress, she demanded color and took away my precious panties for the day. Finding the beauty in being nude to me felt like being in a black and white film, without my color – as Mistress pointed out – […]
How you get there isn’t as important as making sure you find the part of you that gets the job done, and the part of you that recognizes and appreciates it. Searching for motivation and waiting for recognition can leave you dead in your tracks do decide where you are coming from and go get […]
Without warning our circumstances can change, and without notice or premeditation our bodies and minds can swing in dramatic ways. There is a moment between realization and reality, between a physical exertion and pain, when our minds lose the ability to process the changes brought forth by external forces. I love these moments, i don’t […]
When i first discovered my love of wearing panties, i felt a need to validate the desire. Without confronting the idea of femininity, i focused on the fit – thong, hipster, g-string – that was far different from traditional male underwear, and the material which is much softer and more appealing. I can now appreciate […]
Trying new things can be… trying. I love surprises, i am also the type of person who learns from hands on experiences and trial and error. In seeking out new experiences, i tend to look for things that are attainable, but even experiences that are easily within reach and be difficult and have obstacles. I […]
Waking up with an erection is common, but on occasion you work harder in your dreams than in your jeans. On these days you may wake up with achy balls, very likely you will also notice those globes glow a fabulous purplish/blueish hue. From a Dominant, ‘blue balls’ are a gift, a sign of care […]
The envelope was hand delivered under my door at night, plain white oversized and matte with only the trademark bunny symbol in purple on one side. I opened it to reveal a one sided cardstock invitation also starkly white in matte finish with text in the the same colour purple that read: “Happy birthday cupcake, […]
No, i don’t mean it, i would never describe fetishes as being horrible. There might be horrible people doing horrible things, but one thing i will never do is shame someone for their fetish. I’m the type of person who gets in bed with cold feet (sorry), and then an hour later i am a […]
There’s no reason why kink can’t be silly, or even an amazing way to stay fit. One of my earliest fantasies was playing a game of tennis with a female friend of mine who was much better than i was, wearing tight and torn shorts that embarrassingly disintegrate and expose me as i struggle for […]
With bright eyes and the purest intentions, they come into our lives full of energy, and ready to affix themselves to, and insert their imprint on what was and is to become the new status quo. Taking bigger and bolder steps as they grow, they start to test the boundaries, get a little bolder, and […]