The purest of intentions and the purest form of submission exist within a realm of duality. Pain is pleasure, chores are a gift, and control means letting go. These lacy panties hold me where i need to be held, and still let the best parts of me show through. My day was explosive in so […]
This guide is designed to give you the tools required in order to begin having enjoyable anal play using sex toys. There are suggestions for how to select toys, how to properly and safely maintain them, and finally a guide for how to begin using and enjoying them. Before you begin Selecting your toy: Starting with […]
Before engaging in impact play, there are a couple considerations, and some essential items to ensure safety as well as enjoyment. Warm Up As with any BDSM activity, start low and slow, especially with impact play. Sudden sharp blows without warm up strokes is very rarely considered pleasurable by most SM standards and can also […]
Subspace is a combination of endorphins and other chemicals caused by a deep level of intimacy and arousal that creates an almost drug like high for most. It is usually found during an intense scene and the submissive may seem completely out of it, even unaware to different levels as to what is going on […]
What is ball stretching and why? Ball stretching is done for many reasons. Some enjoy the aesthetics and ball envy of having a pair of low hangers, while others enjoy the swing of a pendulous pair of balls. Others will declare they enjoy the feeling of an elongated orgasm. Personally I love all of the […]
What is a TENS unit? The most often used machine for electro sex is a TENS unit. Their original medical use was for the relief nerve or muscle pain, lots of women use it to ease labour pains, but they can also be used for pleasure purposes. TENS units consist of two parts: a power […]
Denial has a lot of emotional and physical effects for the submissive undergoing it, it is also a tool to be used by the Dom(me) to have a stronger emotional hold over a sub. Although everyone is different Denial tends to affect subs in phases, these are caused by the change in hormone levels as […]
For my third week of impact play i wanted to try a new area of my body, and my mind was set on the front of my thighs. I was not only excited about new sensations but the ease in ability to cause impact on the fronts of my thighs. This was very much a […]
I was surprised and delighted when i found out that i could have an impact play scene from a bonus task in the Dungeon. i also found the irony of a thorned flower leading to masochistic play to be absolutely delightful. my task was to pick 5 items, and i would receive 10 swats with each; i […]