I am all about nicknames, for most of my life i have had one to the extent that some of my closest friends went years without knowing that it wasn’t my real name. It’s a name i associate with my youth, with accomplishments of the past and i can quickly assume a lighter more jovial […]
Someone commented to me about my inner dialogue, sharing those thoughts that happen at certain times but i don’t know if it quite captures the voice and the spirit of what it hear. It’s based on the situation and where it comes from, and it’s an interesting view that says a lot about my submissive […]
Pride can sometimes prevent us from making sound decisions, whether it is decisions in sexual practices and sexual partners, or engaging in fetishes and scenes. Something often overlooked is the role of the protector, and the need for having someone to help evaluate situations that could place you in harm. When the discussion of exploring […]
I am addressing all of you who choose to read this, and i am thankful that you do. Recently i started posting my blog publicly and not just to our Dungeon website, a trove of information about our private Femdom group and resources for public consumption. It can be exhausting. Confronting readers, whether i am […]
If someone came up to you and said: “I want you to go get the messiest thing in world, smear it all over yourself first thing in the morning, don’t clean it off until the end of the day so it gets into everything, your clothes, your house, your car, your bed, your hair your […]
I heard a Domme describe how She enjoys knowing how uncomfortable Their submissive is during the day, wearing some sexy little number, pulling and pinching and crushing very sensitive parts. Throughout the day it would be impossible to ignore the feeling, a constant reminder of Her, but that is only one example of being uncomfortable. […]
We use our hands for just about everything, our fingers the extension that makes it possible to bt tactile and precise. The hands don’t help the mind, it’s not a symbiotic relationship between the two, but we can invent and we can find ways to place hints. Connected to the hands are out wrists, vulnerable […]
One of the goals for today is updating my reward chart, it’s a list of possible outcomes that after completing a task i can enjoy as a reward. When my reward board was created, it had varying rewards ranging from physical pleasure to fetishes and new toy purchases. Over time i have found the reward […]
How does it make you feel? That’s what i want to know. When i see something that excites me, i want to explore deeper, understand why i have the feeling, discover the size and depth of the excitement. The most exciting is something new that i have never experienced before, and grows in spades if […]
I had an idea of what chastity would be like when i gave Mistress control over it 17 months ago and learned it is not a uniform experience, it is truly unique to all. I observed another in chastity, his torment coerced in real time, his eventual release, and thought it would be this way […]