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BDSM Myth: BDSM is Inherently Dangerous

On its face this statement is true, but an explanation is necessary. This is a blanket one size fits all general statement and as most stereotypical statements it doesn’t hold up when truly analyzed. Using the logic that made this statement you could argue that shooting fireworks, cooking a roast in a pressure cooker, or […]

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Sticks and strings

This task had me thinking for days, watching endless how to’s and reading about custom toys, furniture and hundreds of other crazy fun things. Once I had some ideas i started through what I had available to work with and here at the apartment it is quite bare… Tools and supplies are all there. I […]

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Alone with an orgasm

Alone with an orgasm Recently I had the opportunity as a group task to attempt to orgasm through anal stimulation alone. Now when I say alone I am referring to completely alone both in other types of stimulation and physically being alone. Of course I have had plenty of orgasms by myself, stroking a quick […]

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People who engage in BDSM are all promiscuous

I was looking up a lot of sites and forums on the internet and picked my brain for the last days on how to approach this myth. There are no facts or studies about this anywhere i looked. Probably i have missed something because i tend to not see things that are right in my […]

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Submissives have no control over what happens.

This myth, like most myths, is born out of ignorance, inexperience, and misunderstanding. In my opinion one of the main roots of this myth is a misunderstanding or lack of thought of how control or power is exchanged in a Dominant/submissive relationship. This myth stems from the assumption that the power, control, or influence that […]

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BDSM MYTHS: Only ‘gay’ men and/or ‘sluts’ engage in anal play

Shove it up your ass. Sit on it and rotate. Bend over. Drop the soap. Expressions all meant to belittle and insult, because only certain types of people would engage in anal sex. Well here’s the scoop, you don’t need to go to prison to learn the truth about anal sex, which is that it’s […]

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Love, Sex and BDSM.

Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]

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The Importance of Meditation and its Impact on Mental Health

During a time when my depression spiked, and I had difficulty being happy with myself, I was lucky enough to be offered guidance by the Woman who would later become my Mentor. She suggested meditation as a way to deal with the overwhelming despair I felt. I was skeptical of its benefits at the time, […]

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DIY: Tennis Ball Gag

BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]

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Panties – a form of humiliation?

Why I Dress my Boys in Panties By Mistress Michelle I’ve tried to write this blog post several times already. I came to the concussion that while my writing skills are total crap and it’s a real struggle for me, its also important that I share my reasons, my views and my love for subs […]