This guide is designed to give you the basics of what to look for in a butt plug, mistakes to avoid, and helpful suggestions for ensuring success in discovering the joy of plugging up your butt. It is important to have real toys Here’s what to look out for and why: A flared base on […]
Welcoming Potential Dommes
Being a lifestyle Domme is more than just a role to be played in the bedroom. What does it look like when your Domme role is actually applied to day-to-day life as well? We can show you.
I like my penis
Penises get a bad rap, they are the frat boys of the male anatomy, always looking for mischief, getting others into trouble and staying up all hours of the night. In contrast, approaching a Domme or a set of Dommes is like attending a tea party, it’s formal, there are rules, and you better be […]
Do you need protection?
Pride can sometimes prevent us from making sound decisions, whether it is decisions in sexual practices and sexual partners, or engaging in fetishes and scenes. Something often overlooked is the role of the protector, and the need for having someone to help evaluate situations that could place you in harm. When the discussion of exploring […]
On being an open book
I am addressing all of you who choose to read this, and i am thankful that you do. Recently i started posting my blog publicly and not just to our Dungeon website, a trove of information about our private Femdom group and resources for public consumption. It can be exhausting. Confronting readers, whether i am […]
If someone came up to you and said: “I want you to go get the messiest thing in world, smear it all over yourself first thing in the morning, don’t clean it off until the end of the day so it gets into everything, your clothes, your house, your car, your bed, your hair your […]
I heard a Domme describe how She enjoys knowing how uncomfortable Their submissive is during the day, wearing some sexy little number, pulling and pinching and crushing very sensitive parts. Throughout the day it would be impossible to ignore the feeling, a constant reminder of Her, but that is only one example of being uncomfortable. […]
I will admit, this was a stated goal of mine. I’ve heard it and seen it from many since and i wish i could fast forward the clock for them and show them where this goal ends. There’s nothing to prevent someone for just going and being a slut, there’s ethical sluts, there’s abusive sluts, […]
Dom(me) Drop – it does happen!
A common term in BDSM is sub drop but rarely, if ever, is Dom(me) drop discussed. It is a real thing and does happen! We focus so much on making sure subs are cared for that we are often left to deal with it alone. Dom(me) drop is very much the same as sub drop […]
Why does it feel good? The opening of the anus is filled with nerve endings, and because the area may not be stimulated often, any pleasurable sensations there can made even more intense. Also, be cause it is advised to preform a slower approach when initially engaging in anal play, the build up can be […]