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BDSM MYTHS: Only ‘gay’ men and/or ‘sluts’ engage in anal play

Shove it up your ass. Sit on it and rotate. Bend over. Drop the soap. Expressions all meant to belittle and insult, because only certain types of people would engage in anal sex. Well here’s the scoop, you don’t need to go to prison to learn the truth about anal sex, which is that it’s more intense, more alluring, and more of a sensual experience than anything else you do with a partner or even alone. It’s not just for gay men and sluts anymore, anal sex is the new multiple orgasm… which is also possible for both sexes during anal play. Now are you interested???

Any Tom, Dick or Harry can swing a leaky hose, that don’t impress me much. There’s more than one muscle in your body, start with the one between your ears and learn the facts. Once you’ve been enlightened to the pleasures of the posterior, then you can bring pleasure to so many more areas, of your own body and others you want to please.

I like a little hands on research myself, so I went straight to the source. This is what happens when you assign a task for Dungeon submissives to challenge the myth

Only ‘gay’ men or ‘sluts’ engage in anal play”.

The Myth

The Tasks

  1. Research anal play and prostate massage. Come up with a list of facts why anal is good for all and any medical/health facts you can find.
  2. Based on the number of facts you found:
    1-5 = 1 chance/session to achieve a milking only.
    6-10 = 1 chance/session to achieve an anal orgasm.
    11+ = 1 chance/session to achieve multiple anal orgasms.
  3. Write a scene report/review and explain how your anal play went and how you personally feel about anal play.

The Results

Obviously the boys in the Dungeon all managed to find 11+ anal facts and had high hopes for achieving the elusive mind blowing multiple anal orgasms. Men are so predictable! But anyway, I got the list of facts I was hoping for (some far more amusing than others) so I could spread the word:

Health Benefits

  1. The “male G-spot” is packed with thousands of nerve endings, which means that when you stimulate it, it feels really, really good.
  2. Milking a prostate once per month can reduce the rate of prostate cancer by as much as 30%.
  3. It helps eliminate the build-up of prostatic fluid in the prostate gland ducts, which can lead to prostatitis, a painful inflammation of the prostate.
  4. It improves blood flow to the prostate which helps the gland produce the fluid that mixes with semen and increases circulation, helping with impotence.
  5. It can help prevent BPH (Benign prostatic hyperplasia), also known as an enlarged prostate, which can lead to difficulty in urinating and cause bladder infections if the urine backs up into the bladder.
  6. Prostate massage can be used before a urine test to help dislodge and identify cancer cells in the urine.
  7. It keeps your immune system in great shape, as exercise is involved and introduces your antibodies to different sorts of things while doing so.
  8. May ease fluid blockages which could lead to painful ejaculation.
  9. Clears you out. Due to all the increased activity in that region and blood flow down there, it helps your bowels get moving and makes it much easier to pass them.
  10. Regular anal sex helps find abnormalities and early screening for prostate cancer.
  11. Anal sexy helps to boost your immune system and exercise core muscles.
  12. An abundance of nerve endings are stimulated through anal sex releasing more endorphins in both men and women making it extremely pleasurable.

Sexual Benefits

  1. If you give it you take it – this one makes me laugh but it would be hypocritical if you ask for it but refuse to receive it right?
  2. Prostate massage can lead to 33 percent bigger orgasms.
  3. It increases sexual diversity, anyone can have fun with it.
  4. Can give you a better understanding of how to be on top/bottom.
  5. Can give a hands on knowledge of how it feels on your partner.
  6. Milking can relieve sexual frustration for men in chastity.
  7. Prostate milking can increase the sex drive of males in chastity.
  8. You gain more experience using sex toys and different lubes.
  9. Having an anal orgasm without stimulating your cock is an exciting way to cum and great asset to include on any resume.
  10. Sexual stimulation in a new erogenous zone is exciting.
  11. Anal sex promotes proper hygiene and helps with cleaner BMs.
  12. Contraception is included in anal sex at no additional cost.
  13. Inserting the penis into an anus is more pleasurable for many men than a vagina because of the tighter anus muscles.
  14. You may have the best orgasm of your life or even full body multiple orgasms!
  15. It’s “taboo” and that is exciting. Every time we indulge in something that is considered taboo, we’re helping to chip away at the fact that it’s taboo.
  16. It’s another option – vaginal sex is great but who doesn’t like options.

Despite what many prudes would have you believe there are no known or proven health defects related to anal play or prostate massage. The only one on the record is a higher transmittance of STI’s. This can be negated by simply using a condom and common sense. If you have an open discussion with your partner about their partners you can easily have a safe new kink.

By Mistress Michelle

I am the owner, creator and leader of the Kik task group Divas Dungeon. Divas Dungeon has been my labour of love for over three years now.

1 reply on “BDSM MYTHS: Only ‘gay’ men and/or ‘sluts’ engage in anal play”

Great list of insights!

Having an anal orgasm without stimulating your cock is an exciting way to cum and great asset to include on any resume.

this was my favorite by far! ill make sure to update my resume for the next job I apply for hehe

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