I was looking up a lot of sites and forums on the internet and picked my brain for the last days on how to approach this myth. There are no facts or studies about this anywhere i looked. Probably i have missed something because i tend to not see things that are right in my […]
This myth, like most myths, is born out of ignorance, inexperience, and misunderstanding. In my opinion one of the main roots of this myth is a misunderstanding or lack of thought of how control or power is exchanged in a Dominant/submissive relationship. This myth stems from the assumption that the power, control, or influence that […]
Can you maintain the right headspace to feel submissive throughout a protocol, an assignment, task or scene? How about your whole day? Simple steps can ensure that you maintain the headspace you want by planning ahead and sticking to your plan. Ahead of your protocol, have everything ready – the planning becomes part of the […]
Shove it up your ass. Sit on it and rotate. Bend over. Drop the soap. Expressions all meant to belittle and insult, because only certain types of people would engage in anal sex. Well here’s the scoop, you don’t need to go to prison to learn the truth about anal sex, which is that it’s […]
Something of great power, sophistication, and beauty deserves an understated yet complimentary pairing to highlight it’s best qualities. I yearn to be the perfect accessory.
Safe zones in the BDSM context refer to the areas in which are safest to hit when doing impact play. these areas do not contain any organs and have the most meat to hit without causing an impact with the bones. The most universal safe zone is the butt! its big, meaty and just looks […]
Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]
During a time when my depression spiked, and I had difficulty being happy with myself, I was lucky enough to be offered guidance by the Woman who would later become my Mentor. She suggested meditation as a way to deal with the overwhelming despair I felt. I was skeptical of its benefits at the time, […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
For my homemade kink toy, I converted a wooden coat hanger into a compact cane with a very stingy impact. First, I removed the cross bar from the hanger. the nice thing abut this was I could still use the rest of the hanger as it was intended to be used lol. Next, I removed […]