I like to lick vaginas. I really really like bringing sexual pleasure to my partner but how is this an acceptable introduction? Just because i like doing it doesn’t mean i am really good at it. If i am really good at it, that still doesn’t mean i am any better at it than somebody […]
Growing up i wasn’t allowed to eat sweets, sugar was the devil and Halloween was hell on earth. I know others who grew up in similar situations, ended up as junk food addicts, hopped up on cotton candy and slushies. The taste i recognize as being pleasurable, but i don’t gravitate to things that bring […]
Anticipation is an incredible tool, the premonition of the tease, and the denial of the climax. Looking into Your subs eyes, there’s a look, just before the clamps are pulled from their nipples, a blank expression that in other circumstances could mean; ‘oh i forgot to lock the door’. There’s a physical edge that can […]
There’s a benefit to wearing tight tiny g-strings that i am able to expose more of myself to outside elements. The smaller the string the better, letting it sink deeper and deeper between my naked ass cheeks, and bury itself in my thighs and between my legs like i am absorbing them. At times i […]
Being at the ready, creating the right conditions, there ways to ensure that you are ready to start a new relationship, a new scene, or a new discussion without being overzealous. D types can sometimes create impossible situations where only the perfect situation or predictable response will result in a successful outcome. Submissives will often […]
There are protocols we create to solidify the dynamic we want to establish. It’s easy to treat those as suggestions rather than requirements. It’s also easy to infer meaning to those rules beyond their intention. It can be as simple as a preferred title, or as complex as a ritual, understanding the meaning behind protocols […]
One of the amazing aspects of being among the kink community at large is the acceptance and inclusivity of all variations of diversity. It does not mean we are free from judgement or prejudice however, and we should remember that it requires discipline and dedication to remain in a positive headspace and routine. So many […]
Putting into practice the type of Dominant or submissive you wish to become isn’t entirely of your own design. It’s important to recognize where the archetype you designed came from, often the ideas from unrealistic sources like porn, or Tumblr show scenes that are staged or choreographed. When put into practice the reality becomes unfulfilling. […]
There are moments when piles collecting on the floor show the weight of what we carry. It could be physical, emotional, your possessions or your body, picking up heaps can be a tricky task. Surveying the weight, it’s easy to approach it with caution. I have been guilty of being overly cautious, and underwhelming in […]
I often hear submissives and bottoms troubled by the fact that they can’t take as much pain as other people they see playing. A good bit of what we do in this lifestyle involves some type of pain in some form, be it physical or mental. These types of play aren’t just for masochist. Masochists […]