Sometimes it’s obvious what Mistress is thinking and sometimes it’s easier to ask. When i don’t know and i don’t ask, i usually get told. What submissive doesn’t like being told what to do right? That’s not what i am told. I am told what i need, through verbal and non verbal cues i am […]
This week we will explore a more fringe fetish, abrasion play. It requires a lot of concentration and aftercare to properly practice and do so in a safe manner. A variety of implements, some natural and some DIY solutions will be applied to the exploration of this fetish. The goal is to learn from new […]
Pro wrestling was all the rage when i was growing up. Funny thing was as kids we all knew it was fake but when we pretended to be wrestlers, it was very real. Who wants to lose anyway right? I didn’t like taking about it, or engaging in discussions about it with friends because i […]
Reaching your desired kinky headspace can take on many forms, if it involves a scene, or protocols, or a certain physicality, it always requires a certain level of consistency. In your vanilla life, you need the same type of consistency to reach your desired headspace. Typically we refer to it as self care from a […]
Be a lamb Be a dear Be a dog Be a frog. Be a donkey Be an ass Be a prick Be a dick. Be sincere Be direct Be afraid Be dismayed. Be a window Be a wall Be a door Be a whore. Be a monster Be a gnome Be an elf Be yourself. […]
It can be fairly amusing to watch someone walk in heels for the first time, but truthfully anyone who has tried will tell you they almost broke their neck. Entering a marathon wouldn’t make much sense, taking the dog for a walk, or doing routine chores, it would be dangerous wearing heels for the first […]
We are exploring the nature of torture this week and its many purposes and types within BDSM. There is a connection often drawn between punishment and torture that intrigues me, partly because i enjoy torture in a very primal sense, to suffer for Her would bring me pleasure if it did for Her as well. […]
Can you really have too many bananas? Bananas come in bunches, and i have never gone to the grocery store and bought only one banana or seen one lonely banana sitting there. Yet when we want a snack, or want to add a banana to a meal, rarely do we eat more than one, some […]
Every morning there’s always one female who checks my bulge. It’s the same female, we are colleagues, known each other for more than ten years and i noticed as my pants have gotten tighter, her glances have become more blatant. I am a keen observer of human nature, i am fascinated by voyeurism and how […]
I was asked by Mistress, were these pearls of wisdom or pearls of frustration. They were definitely pearls of frustration – the inability to change something, an ongoing struggle. Struggle is something to be embraced as you push your boundaries and test your limits, change is to be expected after you have confronted your anxieties […]