There’s an excitement and energy that comes from trying something new, whether it’s a new person who excites you, a new fetish you want to explore, a limit you want to push, our goals help keep us moving forward. A balanced approach has to be maintained while establishing goals, ensuring that you don’t set yourself […]
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Rare and precious gems
It’s difficult to tell the difference between real jewels and fake jewels at a glance, so why does it matter? In your search for something exquisite, what you end up with really depends on how you approach your goal. In BDSM, taking time, doing research, and setting realistic goals will ultimately get you the faster, […]
A friend of mine wrote on his blog about how quick to judgment we can all be, especially when it comes to assessing someone’s motives. Over time we become conditioned by our surroundings, entering a new environment or dynamic can sometimes create a conflict of expectations. The importance of communication and boundaries go without saying […]
Sounding
When I first heard about sounding it immediately went on my hard limits list. Largely I would say due to having absolutely no idea about it and the fear of putting something inside the penis. Phantom pain I guess would be the best way to describe it, even without trying it. Our mind works in […]
Shove it up your ass. Sit on it and rotate. Bend over. Drop the soap. Expressions all meant to belittle and insult, because only certain types of people would engage in anal sex. Well here’s the scoop, you don’t need to go to prison to learn the truth about anal sex, which is that it’s […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]
Open Position: Admin Sub
The Dommes of Divas Dungeon are searching for a service sub to help with administrative work. The lovely ladies of this FREE Kik Femdom Dungeon are searching for someone that can help with: Twitter posts Help with kinky research Help update and maintain our website Update task lists Help make task cards Help make a […]
S.S.C And R.A.C.K
In Diva’s Dungeon we follow SSC and RACK, but what does that mean? Well, for starters SsC means Safe, Sane, and Consensual; and RACK sands for Risk-aware, Consensual, Kink. But it’s a lot more and not quite as simple as the acronyms may imply, let’s go through these letters one by one. Safe: You have […]
Prostate Simulation
Choosing prostate stimulation as a topic seemed like a great idea because it is something that is commonly misunderstood, it rarely gets talked about in detail, safety is very important and it is something that I enjoy greatly! It’s something that you can really get into ? hehe First off let’s discuss what, where and […]