Allowing others to know what you are thinking is a treasured experience, one you can share, gift, enjoy as often as you like, but there’s a catch – opening up means admitting to something you didn’t intend for others to know – it’s not simply about saying what’s on your mind. When you open up […]
It’s such an unlikely source of pleasure, if one considers everything we knew about our butts before we knew it’s full potential. For its beauty, its ability to take a beating and for the hidden gems that lie beneath, exploring the cavernous reaches of our backsides is a wonderful endeavour. Appreciating the tush begins aesthetically, […]
It’s common for submissives to become passive when it comes to understanding what is behind many of the finer details of BDSM. In part this is due to a desire to be given permission to experience it fetishes, or seek only details that are of interest to a Dominant. Research however, is important in BDSM […]
It is important to understand what’s behind a communication. Think if what you are communicating is really for your benefit or someone else’s, or think about what communication you receive and trying to understand why. We don’t always show our faults when others are looking. When we are called upon to explain our actions, we […]
I was sent this question through a post on Reddit by Mistress and i wanted to approach this from a different stance than previously i have. The OP was asking for responses from males specifically so it is a question of gender and preference and why it is important. Semantics for me are a limit […]
I had this discussion last night about maintaining a journal and protocols, if you have nobody to share them with. As all worthwhile discussions do, the depth of the circumstances escalated and the question became, if the world had ended and you were the last person on earth, would you maintain the protocols for sanity’s […]
Filling your cup is a common metaphor for reaching satiation through various means. In all ways metaphorically and literally, rare moments of feeling full should be celebrated and revered. Appreciate those moments by recording them, allowing you to recall them for a future date. Remember the smell, the sound, sight, taste and feeling, because they […]
When a decision is made to honor a person’s greatness and legacy, typically they are rewarded with a a naming, or a statue, a physical representation on display. A handprint and a star engraved in pavement is the most recent form of honoring our highest regarded idols as they allow us to imagine the scale […]
Cupcake’s journey began in earnest; sparkle and shine, She will claim you as Mine. Before long he glittered, his heart raced and it flittered, yet his mind it still jittered. He soon took to dancing, leaping and prancing, inviting much glancing, still he kept on advancing. To show his conviction, he tested restriction, and found […]
Penises get a bad rap, they are the frat boys of the male anatomy, always looking for mischief, getting others into trouble and staying up all hours of the night. In contrast, approaching a Domme or a set of Dommes is like attending a tea party, it’s formal, there are rules, and you better be […]