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It’s a Cinch

What if? But what if? But But Butt What if? Just do it cupcake Yes Mistress That was a cinch Don’t overthink. Just listen to your Mistress.

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Anal Play and Prostate Massage

Why does it feel good? The opening of the anus is filled with nerve endings, and because the area may not be stimulated often, any pleasurable sensations there can made even more intense. Also, be cause it is advised to preform a slower approach when initially engaging in anal play, the build up can be […]

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Because You Care

Self care is what you think you need, but do you allow room for others within your plan? Being flexible and including others can be challenging, but also is always rewarding. Sharing a coffee, an exercise, quiet time, if you incorporate others in your self care plan it can add meaning for you both. When […]

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BDSM Myth: BDSM is Inherently Dangerous

On its face this statement is true, but an explanation is necessary. This is a blanket one size fits all general statement and as most stereotypical statements it doesn’t hold up when truly analyzed. Using the logic that made this statement you could argue that shooting fireworks, cooking a roast in a pressure cooker, or […]

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Sticks and strings

This task had me thinking for days, watching endless how to’s and reading about custom toys, furniture and hundreds of other crazy fun things. Once I had some ideas i started through what I had available to work with and here at the apartment it is quite bare… Tools and supplies are all there. I […]

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Alone with an orgasm

Alone with an orgasm Recently I had the opportunity as a group task to attempt to orgasm through anal stimulation alone. Now when I say alone I am referring to completely alone both in other types of stimulation and physically being alone. Of course I have had plenty of orgasms by myself, stroking a quick […]

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People who engage in BDSM are all promiscuous

I was looking up a lot of sites and forums on the internet and picked my brain for the last days on how to approach this myth. There are no facts or studies about this anywhere i looked. Probably i have missed something because i tend to not see things that are right in my […]

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Submissives have no control over what happens.

This myth, like most myths, is born out of ignorance, inexperience, and misunderstanding. In my opinion one of the main roots of this myth is a misunderstanding or lack of thought of how control or power is exchanged in a Dominant/submissive relationship. This myth stems from the assumption that the power, control, or influence that […]

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Creating a headspace

Can you maintain the right headspace to feel submissive throughout a protocol, an assignment, task or scene? How about your whole day? Simple steps can ensure that you maintain the headspace you want by planning ahead and sticking to your plan. Ahead of your protocol, have everything ready – the planning becomes part of the […]

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BDSM MYTHS: Only ‘gay’ men and/or ‘sluts’ engage in anal play

Shove it up your ass. Sit on it and rotate. Bend over. Drop the soap. Expressions all meant to belittle and insult, because only certain types of people would engage in anal sex. Well here’s the scoop, you don’t need to go to prison to learn the truth about anal sex, which is that it’s […]