I know right? What’s with millennials and their new ways of saying the same thing? (Ahlie means – i know right?) Millions of cliches support the use of slang, variety is the spice of life, walk a mile in… whatever, and i think changing our vocabulary is healthy and supports growth is a different way. […]
Mistress doesn’t like restraints. She likes to order Her subs to stand there, hold their position while She tortures their body with various implements of mass destruction. Floggers, whips, canes, paddles?? Not in this case, just 6 inches black Louboutin heels. AKA..the ballbusters! Watching Her slave stand there, holding his (well Her) balls up on […]
Submissives in D/s relationship often feel the need to take responsibility over the happiness of their Dominant. It has nothing to do with topping from the bottom, or taking control, you can’t be responsible for your D’s happiness because it’s not your job. I could get into a Good Will Hunting rant on it’s not […]
I don’t spend a lot of time looking at myself, but it doesn’t mean i don’t appreciate my body. Wearing panties for me is a symbol of my devotion to serve Mistress who chooses them, my willingness and pride in vulnerability. What it means to be naked, to look at myself, means really looking at […]
Laugh. It’s not important why, just please laugh. I have to confess that at times i think i am slowly destroying the fabric of BDSM with mockery and meme, but ultimately what i really want, for everyone i come in contact with, for my incredible, beautiful and intelligent Mistress is to laugh together. Laugh at […]
How deeply that lust can feel, when the opposite of frenzy – the anticipation of nearness, reaches a tipping point that requires the lightest of touch, a tiny spark to ignite. I was reminded of a teaching moment, early in my journey i was introduced to sensation play with the application of rubbing alcohol to […]
There are many approaches newbies will take, and there are many reactions to expect from submissives according to their demeanour. New subs are very appealing to Dominants, but it really depends on the right fit. Exploring new kinks, fetishes and ideas for the first time is exhilarating and can be a very powerful experience if […]
I used to take pride in my ability to conceal thoughts, as someone who does not easily display emotion i would often hear others comment about how they could not tell what i was thinking. It gave me an incredible ability to hear others, balance their emotions against the words they use, but the best […]
Taking initiative can be an empowering experience for a submissive if they have the trust of their Dominant. There are so many questions a submissive asks before making an independent decision on behalf of themselves and their D, but the reward is a sense of pride. There is the dreaded fear of topping and passive […]
I got carried away with these pictures. I was late for work, there was an important meeting, i was in a very brief panic, but i stopped to review the pictures, i maintained the protocol and through prioritization and effort i made it on time, in fact i was early. My mind put the critical […]