I was asked by Mistress, were these pearls of wisdom or pearls of frustration. They were definitely pearls of frustration – the inability to change something, an ongoing struggle. Struggle is something to be embraced as you push your boundaries and test your limits, change is to be expected after you have confronted your anxieties […]
Shoutouts What a fun week in the Divas Dungeon! We would like to give a shoutout to our newest Domme, Mistress Terena! Welcome aboard Mistress Terena, we are excited to have You with us on our kinky journey and looking forward to your guidance. We also have a new permanent Dungeon sub mark! Welcome aboard […]
How are you? Questions of this nature are non committal, it’s so open ended that the person responding is faced with the decision about the level of detail, length, and guess as to the intention. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a standard polite greeting, i use it all the time, but the only purpose for […]
Someone very near and dear to me is always right, i won’t embarrass Mistress by saying who it is, but She will let you know between the two of us it is Her, She will let me know however in much more subtle ways. It took little time for me to remove the word no […]
Shoutouts Would like to give a special shoutout to mark and danny, you two are rocking it! Keep up the great work! Both Danny and mark have stepped up in our Dommeslife chat room, added some new daily discussion topics as well. Stop by #Dommes.life in Kik and say hi today for some good conversation. […]
There’s a song i love by Jason Isbel with this title, and the chorus goes; “cover me up, and know your’re enough, to use me for good”, it speaks to me and the way i am feel vulnerable at the wisp of a breath from Mistress at any given time. What struck me yesterday was […]
For this assignment, I read four articles about BDSM and the psychology behind it. All four of them focused on the effects of what it is like to be in a BDSM relationship. Psychologytoday.com starts with the question by asking “Are they sick?” and going into an explanation of how Freud’s psychology would view it as […]
It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]
Shoutouts We would like to congratulate our newest permanent Dungeon sub, Danny! Way to go! Danny jumped in with both feet and has really embraced the lifestyle. Welcome to the F/family Danny! Our newest trial sub mark is doing a wonderful job, hard working, he has really hit the ground running. Keep up the good […]
In my view, power exchange is simply handing over power of an aspect, or multiple aspects, of your life to your partner for them to control. Now, with that being said, there are various ways ones can engage in a power exchange relationship, and to varying degrees. And it doesn’t necessarily mean it has to […]