Safe zones in the BDSM context refer to the areas in which are safest to hit when doing impact play. these areas do not contain any organs and have the most meat to hit without causing an impact with the bones. The most universal safe zone is the butt! its big, meaty and just looks […]
Sex for me has always been about love. Sure in the early days of being sexually active i looked for an opportunity where ever i could, but i soon realized that it wasn’t sex that i craved. Instead it was the act of making love that i desired. I began turning down potential one night […]
During a time when my depression spiked, and I had difficulty being happy with myself, I was lucky enough to be offered guidance by the Woman who would later become my Mentor. She suggested meditation as a way to deal with the overwhelming despair I felt. I was skeptical of its benefits at the time, […]
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted? The Myth For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair pulling or light spanking, many see the image of BDSM as being whips, chains and […]
BDSM must involve the use of fancy tools and expensive equipment… The Myth The Task You are to make a BDSM themed toy or a piece of equipment using only items you already have laying around at home. You can re-purpose thing but you have to have made significant changes to it first. You can’t just […]
A person who is Dominant or submissive in ‘real life’ will prefer a similar role in BDSM The Myth Personality Types and Their Roles in BDSM I have heard the argument both ways, that Dominants and submissives are determined by their personality types – remaining consistent to or being opposite – in their everyday / […]
BDSM is all about pain and torture… The Myth “Please water board me, please I need it” I have never even heard of anyone uttering these words. To some is supposedly BDSM is all about pain and torture. There are a couple issue with this statement. One torture is involuntary where as BDSM requires consent. […]
Self love and appreciation – A beginners guide to loving yourself In the era is social media, instant gratification is exponentially personified in likes, and comments, and just as quickly disappointment is magnified and self-doubt are amplified. In the context of BDSM, it is no different, but add to it an endorphin rush from a […]
There isn’t a one size fits all recipe for practicing lifestyle BDSM, or more specifically Femdom. Having regular protocols certainly sets the foundation however, wearing panties is just one example of something i do daily to make me feel special, wearing them for Mistress makes it special to us both. Often i will do things […]
Why I Dress my Boys in Panties By Mistress Michelle I’ve tried to write this blog post several times already. I came to the concussion that while my writing skills are total crap and it’s a real struggle for me, its also important that I share my reasons, my views and my love for subs […]