I grew up watching a lot of old movies in black and white, my perception and visualization of the past also became images and scenes read or recounted playing in my mind in gray-scale. It’s like the saying hindsight is always 20/20, i find myself more and more reserving judgement in favor of adding color […]
It’s difficult to tell the difference between real jewels and fake jewels at a glance, so why does it matter? In your search for something exquisite, what you end up with really depends on how you approach your goal. In BDSM, taking time, doing research, and setting realistic goals will ultimately get you the faster, […]
I feel naked when i am dressed, and i feel awkward being naked. I’m not good at hugging, yet i long to be touched. Where it stems from is a desire to be humble, and live modestly, not seeking to fulfill my own needs, but understanding how i can make an impact, leave a footprint, […]
There’s a delicate nature i crave at times, it’s very much a desire to be nurtured, protected, and comforted. I look for things i can hold onto and words i can use that will make me feel coddled. There’s a numbness that surrounds me, and where i am typically hypersensitive to touch, when in this […]
There are so many elements that go into every good scene, ensuring communication, safety, consent and negotiation go without saying. Having a clear expectation of the outcomes and goals is also important, but how do you ensure the success of that plan. Time is the most critical component and often overlooked. Making sure that it […]
Something i recently questioned is the nature of subspace, if it can be attained as a goal and if it’s misunderstood. I often describe my own experience as coming easily, a loss of control or an acceptance caused by an altered mental state. A word can put me there, so how is it so easy […]
A friend of mine wrote on his blog about how quick to judgment we can all be, especially when it comes to assessing someone’s motives. Over time we become conditioned by our surroundings, entering a new environment or dynamic can sometimes create a conflict of expectations. The importance of communication and boundaries go without saying […]
As much as i love glitter, i am not a member of the gliterroti, and i do not have an affinity for glitophilia. When i sparkle, i sparkle for Mistress. It’s not a single act of service or a solitary purposeful slutformation, it’s carefully applying the right lipstick to my cock head, dipping my penis […]
Some thoughts really turn me around, take my line of thinking and turn it on it’s head. I discussed today how my life would be different if all aspects of BDSM were public, accepted and norms in society. What struck me was not how it would impact my current relationships and day to day activities, […]
A doily is meant to protect objects, bind objects together and improve the overall presentation of objects. To a submissive, these same characteristics can be applied to the archetype of the D they seek to find. Someone who will provide a safe way to explore their submissive needs, guide them from errors and care for […]