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In this second part of the Dom(me)’s Life two-part series on Kinky Goals and Resolutions, we’re looking ahead to the New Year. Here we’ll take our reflections from the past year (see part one of this series, if you haven’t already, for help on this), and we’ll use them to create meaningful protocols, goals &/or […]
Kinky Goals & Resolutions, Week One It’s that time again—the year is new and many people use this time to set goals and make resolutions for the calendar ahead. As lifestyle kinksters, we too can take the new year as a chance to reflect on our kinky journey and chart our course for what we’d […]
Sensory Deprivation Removing one or more of the senses in order to amplify the sensations of the remaining ones. It is a quick way to elevate feelings of vulnerability and submission, and can be disorienting as well as overwhelming. Temperature Play Simply put, temperature play is the act of using hot or cold to elicit […]
We talk about pride and issues facing the LGBTQ+ community – about parental rights, workplace discrimination, legalizing gay marriage… But one area that is often overlooked is healthcare, both physical and mental. Mental Health Depression and anxiety are very common in LGBTQ people, starting at a very young age. In a 2019 CDC report, it […]
It’s more fun than it sounds Orgasm control is an umbrella or catch-all term that covers a number of sub-categories. Orgasm denial Teasing and denial Edging Ruined orgasms Cumming on command Forced orgasms Post-orgasm torture Chastity. Simply put, it’s a broad term that covers a power exchange where one person has an aspect of their […]
Aftercare for Impact Play
Impact Play – Treating injuries
Negotiation tips for Impact play
Stingy vs Thuddy The terms Thuddy and Stingy are used to describe the two main sensations that Impact Play can provide to a bottom. Thuddy Thuddy is a term usually used to describe a dull, deep, firm and solid sensation achieved during impact play. Items that either are used, or if wielded right could be […]
Types of Impact Play Spanking Spanking is a go-to kink activity for so many people, in and out of the lifestyle. It can be a fun way to spice up the sex-life, but also a great way to reinforce behaviours in a Power Exchange Dynamic, as both a punishment or a “funishment”. Generally, and traditionally, […]