In any dynamic there are usually some form of rules that have been pre agreed to which encompass things such as, daily routines, presentation, grooming, habits, speech, training, journals, clothing, chores and the list goes on. All of these rules have one key similarity and that is ‘The Spirit of the Rule’. This is the […]
Introduction There are many forms of exchange between a Dominant and a submissive in a D/s dynamic. The most common being communication, with that comes its own world of complications that you could run into. One of the more popular ones mentioned and discussed is Topping from the bottom and how to correct that style […]
In this second part of the Dom(me)’s Life two-part series on Kinky Goals and Resolutions, we’re looking ahead to the New Year. Here we’ll take our reflections from the past year (see part one of this series, if you haven’t already, for help on this), and we’ll use them to create meaningful protocols, goals &/or […]
Kinky Goals & Resolutions, Week One It’s that time again—the year is new and many people use this time to set goals and make resolutions for the calendar ahead. As lifestyle kinksters, we too can take the new year as a chance to reflect on our kinky journey and chart our course for what we’d […]
It’s more fun than it sounds Orgasm control is an umbrella or catch-all term that covers a number of sub-categories. Orgasm denial Teasing and denial Edging Ruined orgasms Cumming on command Forced orgasms Post-orgasm torture Chastity. Simply put, it’s a broad term that covers a power exchange where one person has an aspect of their […]
Aftercare for Impact Play
Impact Play – Treating injuries
Negotiation tips for Impact play
Stingy vs Thuddy The terms Thuddy and Stingy are used to describe the two main sensations that Impact Play can provide to a bottom. Thuddy Thuddy is a term usually used to describe a dull, deep, firm and solid sensation achieved during impact play. Items that either are used, or if wielded right could be […]
Types of Impact Play Spanking Spanking is a go-to kink activity for so many people, in and out of the lifestyle. It can be a fun way to spice up the sex-life, but also a great way to reinforce behaviours in a Power Exchange Dynamic, as both a punishment or a “funishment”. Generally, and traditionally, […]