Milking Report I informed Mistress that milking was something that interested me, and She asked me to research the topic so i could learn more about it and how it could help while I am in chastity. In my research I discovered that there are many uses for prostate milking, many of them related to […]
Category: BDSM Education
Research is a critical component to developing new skills, expanding knowledge, and exploring new fetishes in a safe and thoughtful manner.
Therefore, research is a critical component of DommesLife. Education is a passion shared by all members of our community who freely share these resources so others can learn and grow.
TENS Research
What is a TENS unit? The most often used machine for electro sex is a TENS unit. Their original medical use was for the relief nerve or muscle pain, lots of women use it to ease labour pains, but they can also be used for pleasure purposes. TENS units consist of two parts: a power […]
A Guide to Protocols
I love my protocols, I know it’s not a kink or a fetish, but it is so impactful to my every day routine that going without them is now a hard limit for me. Here are some considerations for creating protocols, a guide for Dommes and subs. What is a protocol A protocol is any […]
Indeed it is recognized that the “term” BDSM originated in 1969, yet the behavior and its’ practice has been known and enjoyed or practiced well prior to this date. There is archaeological evidence suggesting that the D/s sexual practices may date back to 5000 years ago! In research and writing of such, Anne Nomis discovered […]
Denial has a lot of emotional and physical effects for the submissive undergoing it, it is also a tool to be used by the Dom(me) to have a stronger emotional hold over a sub. Although everyone is different Denial tends to affect subs in phases, these are caused by the change in hormone levels as […]
Dacryphilia
largely understudied fetish, dacryphilia can often be broken down into 2-5 subcategories (depending on who you ask). 1.sexual arousal from someone displaying strong emotion2.sexual arousal from the emotional release that accompanies crying (i.e., an emotional catharsis). There are a couple more specific subcategories(voyeuristic, lower lip, ext…), but these two specifically seem to be the most […]