I have conducted a lot of interviews professionally and one of the easiest questions to answer is what are your weaknesses, but it’s a farce – the question should be ‘what are you hiding?’ There are other ways to get to this answer, and the toughest question is asking, ‘what is the one question you […]
Taking pleasure in someone’s mistakes is amazing especially after you told them it would happen. That’s right, you should feel good about it because you were right. If all you really wanted was to be right, you wouldn’t have offered your opinion in the first place. Some feel that being a hard ass it the […]
I’ve known many who when confronted with pain, react immediately with uncontrollable laughter. I have also seen it described in various forms as a nervous reaction but the reasons given point to something much deeper. Nervous laughter itself is both a physical and emotional reaction to something we don’t want to accept is happening, either […]
I remember going to a store with my mother and she wanted me to pick out wallpaper. It would be too expensive to decorate the whole room, so it was just a trim at the ceiling i was choosing, and the typical choices were cars, planes, sports items, etc. but i chose rainbows. It was […]
Click bait, it’s easy to grab your attention with the right hook. That’s the key to explosive orgasms, focus and attention with little to no effort. I have researched supplements, machines, length of time between orgasms, triggers, and the list goes on. There’s something more at play though and it starts and ends with the […]
How are you? Questions of this nature are non committal, it’s so open ended that the person responding is faced with the decision about the level of detail, length, and guess as to the intention. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a standard polite greeting, i use it all the time, but the only purpose for […]
Whatever your kinks, your role, your current status, you will struggle. What did you expect? I started into the lifestyle because i was complacent, allowing things i had determined as needs to go unfulfilled and desires to go unexplored. So it’s no surprise there will be days where we struggle, the amazing thing about BDSM […]
Someone very near and dear to me is always right, i won’t embarrass Mistress by saying who it is, but She will let you know between the two of us it is Her, She will let me know however in much more subtle ways. It took little time for me to remove the word no […]
Your presence is air, your silence is deafening and suffocating. For service oriented kinksters, a never ending dialogue occurs in absentia. The desire to be needed and relied upon extends to time present, and time away. People who are service oriented thrive on seeing their efforts impacting others positively, are passionate about assignments and responsibilities, […]
Labels are something i despise, even though i freely proclaim that words only power if you let them, they hold even more power if you try to hide them. Afraid of being treated differently, in ways beyond our control, we try to influence our outward image so others will encourage our strengths instead of exploiting […]