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Nuclear powered rocket dildo with turbo boost

If i tried to sell a rocket dildo, i can almost guarantee that people would buy it. There’s an extreme element to some fetishes where rational application of a device is secondary to the symbolic nature of it’s immensity. I have met many subs who proudly present their massive insertables for use only to discover […]

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Creative Writing

Trying things on for size

I used to write erotica from both sides of the D/s perspective in the hopes of understanding the value of each. I couldn’t fathom how anyone would want to be my Dominant, and what they would gain from it. When asking D types if i was on the right path or not, the answers ranged […]

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Bastinado – My continued learning and enjoyment of impact play

It can be difficult to understand how someone can be passionate about the same things for a sustained length of time and still find it enjoyable. Careers often are formed or abandoned based on the fear of combining passion and pleasure with growth and development, similarly kinks and fetishes can be enjoyed and expanded in […]

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BDSM Psychology – The Benefits of Kink

I decided to focus my research around the benefits of participating in BDSM from an emotional and mental state of well being, what the psychological effects are, and how to get the most out of BDSM to promote a healthy mindset. The first article examines kinks and fetishes, how they impact the mind and what […]

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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but lace will erase the scowl on my face

When we let words hold power of us, we reduce our own self worth, and indeed our thick skin to be paper thin and translucent. Referring to ourselves negatively, we attempt to hide the impact those words hold over us, but claiming them first before others can. When we respond to negative words from others, […]

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Cover me up

There’s a song i love by Jason Isbel with this title, and the chorus goes; “cover me up, and know your’re enough, to use me for good”, it speaks to me and the way i am feel vulnerable at the wisp of a breath from Mistress at any given time.  What struck me yesterday was […]

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The delicate nature of ribbons

Bows can be so pretty, but ribbons don’t always stand for joy. Something seemingly delicate and frail can hold so much power if placed on a pedestal.  Holding together important gifts and garments ribbons can bind and prevent things from unravelling and falling apart. Ribbons can carry meaning, symbolic signs of hope or cut when […]

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Pretty cocky

It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]

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Twisted. Sister!

Sometimes the things we see as strange or over the top in others are the things we could learn the most from.  I am someone who struggles to speak in front of others, i search for the right words, i wonder if my meaning is clear. Those who blab on freely without thinking and say […]

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Isn’t it worth it?

We talk of needs yet so many are quick to dismiss them when obstacles appear. When are you going to be free of obstacles? When would it be a good time for you to fulfill your needs exactly? As a manager i am presented with obstacles daily and i respond to all problems presented to […]