How does it make you feel? That’s what i want to know. When i see something that excites me, i want to explore deeper, understand why i have the feeling, discover the size and depth of the excitement. The most exciting is something new that i have never experienced before, and grows in spades if […]
There’s an excitement and energy that comes from trying something new, whether it’s a new person who excites you, a new fetish you want to explore, a limit you want to push, our goals help keep us moving forward. A balanced approach has to be maintained while establishing goals, ensuring that you don’t set yourself […]
Setting the table is a fitting description for how many submissives attempt to get what they want without asking. The concept is creating a pleasing environment for the D, so they either seek to reward the submissive or are simply more likely to be in a playful mood. So why not simply ask? Many submissives […]
I had an idea of what chastity would be like when i gave Mistress control over it 17 months ago and learned it is not a uniform experience, it is truly unique to all. I observed another in chastity, his torment coerced in real time, his eventual release, and thought it would be this way […]
I will admit, this was a stated goal of mine. I’ve heard it and seen it from many since and i wish i could fast forward the clock for them and show them where this goal ends. There’s nothing to prevent someone for just going and being a slut, there’s ethical sluts, there’s abusive sluts, […]
There’s something so sensual about the motion of running your fingers under a soft satin strap, caressing it as it you align it to fit your desired position. Pulling these thing straps away from the skin, grazing it lightly, feels like being in some sexy panty ad. So many times throughout the day, for no […]
Strip Now Kneel Edge Ooze Lick Cum Boy The impact a solitary word, denotes a solitary purpose. When i started writing this list i did not intend for them to be paired but i enjoy the playful nature of the list looking back. Any two or more of those words could be paired for a […]
Pouting, sulking, whining, and complaining, when things aren’t going well we all do it. Some in very vocal ways, others quietly and introspectively. Throwing a tantrum can be very satisfying, it can help relieve stress and it can also let others know perhaps this is not a good time. However, in a public display of […]
When i started wearing panties many years ago, i expected to feel a sense of humiliation and embarrassment. What excited me at the time was not being called a name or being degraded by being mocked, it was the embarrassment of the arousal that it caused. It was something i was embarrassed to admit, it […]
There will be moments along the way where you feel like giving up, that the connection you seek, or the feeling that evades you will never be fulfilled. Remember in those times that you don’t need to set timelines, you don’t need to know every goal, and you don’t need to make definitive decisions one […]