Something i recently questioned is the nature of subspace, if it can be attained as a goal and if it’s misunderstood. I often describe my own experience as coming easily, a loss of control or an acceptance caused by an altered mental state. A word can put me there, so how is it so easy […]
A friend of mine wrote on his blog about how quick to judgment we can all be, especially when it comes to assessing someone’s motives. Over time we become conditioned by our surroundings, entering a new environment or dynamic can sometimes create a conflict of expectations. The importance of communication and boundaries go without saying […]
As much as i love glitter, i am not a member of the gliterroti, and i do not have an affinity for glitophilia. When i sparkle, i sparkle for Mistress. It’s not a single act of service or a solitary purposeful slutformation, it’s carefully applying the right lipstick to my cock head, dipping my penis […]
Some thoughts really turn me around, take my line of thinking and turn it on it’s head. I discussed today how my life would be different if all aspects of BDSM were public, accepted and norms in society. What struck me was not how it would impact my current relationships and day to day activities, […]
A doily is meant to protect objects, bind objects together and improve the overall presentation of objects. To a submissive, these same characteristics can be applied to the archetype of the D they seek to find. Someone who will provide a safe way to explore their submissive needs, guide them from errors and care for […]
There are so many ways to hide, but there are so many reasons not to. When you hide it is out of fear, something you don’t want others to see, something you want to do without judgement, something you may not want to admit. Imagine the feeling when you come out from behind the curtain. […]
Soft like a puff of cloud, to the touch they hardly seem to be there at all. The more delicate and deliberate the delivery, the more they appear to move, manipulate and draw the most sensual of caresses to and from the tips of desperate and starched finger tips. Yes, submissives are a deceiving decor […]
The toughest string for me to tune on my mandolin is the G string. It’s low, it’s loose and inconsistent with its pitch. There’s certainly a parallel between getting in tune and maintaining a headspace. An instrument lying dormant will take a while to get back into tune consistently, similarly a frenzy after being out […]
Some moments deserve to be savoured, and are often missed along the way. It’s right now, right where you are right now. Any moment and every moment in your day has something in it worth savouring, it’s up to you to determine it. For me, looking at my pictures, i remember this moment, i was […]
Slowly the canopy lowers over my eyes as i stare inwardly. My thighs tight, straining to pull to the center all the desire in me and light rolls over them, warming my hips and filling my balls with a desperation to hold onto it a moment longer. From the dimples surrounding my collarbone, pools of […]