I have a tough time exposing my fetishes outside of the scene and i want to find ways of overcoming that issue. The most challenging thing for me to do is feel submissive in a place of uncertainty. Consent has always been at odds with a desire to freely express my submissive personality. Does anyone […]
Growing up i spent time with my grandmother, getting chores done, running errands and she loved going to the bakery for bread. Each day, one roll or a danish for desert, something that she could have gotten once a week but the experience made it more enjoyable to eat, and naturally it was fresh each […]
That iconic track from Rocky Three, it was written for the movie and it was adjusted and recorded to fit just right. Prior to that song being in the movie, another song of equal stature stood in its place as a template for what would fit the scene, what would fit the mood. So often […]
Being a lifestyle Domme is more than just a role to be played in the bedroom. What does it look like when your Domme role is actually applied to day-to-day life as well? We can show you.
I am all about nicknames, for most of my life i have had one to the extent that some of my closest friends went years without knowing that it wasn’t my real name. It’s a name i associate with my youth, with accomplishments of the past and i can quickly assume a lighter more jovial […]
i have written before about selfless and selfish. Yesterday’s glitter task uncovered some clarity for me. It reminded me who i truly am, a submissive. i live to serve. It is my place and what makes me happy. i have often wondered if i should be wearing panties or wait till i am asked. i […]
Freaky Friday i have not kept it secret how horny i have been feeling all week. Never i gone through something like this before. It is different though. Usually a horny guy wants a release, but that is not how i feel. It has increased my desire to be useful. After yesterday’s writing combined with […]
Performance anxiety would be another name for this wonderful thing we sometimes go through when we are unable to ‘perform under pressure’. So what can you do about it? It’s no different in fact than any other form of anxiety, it’s a question of motivation and headspace, endurance and fatigue. Whatever you do for self […]
Lifestyle Discussion Topic: I just won the kink lottery and the Dungeon makeover of my dreams. The shed in the back is finally transformed into a velvet encased lounge, with a few comfortable leather benches, a St. Andrew/’s Cross, many tie points and O rings installed through, with large viewing doors and windows to the […]
I have found many kinky uses for rubber bands. I’ve met many subs who fear their lack of access to kinky toys limits their experiences and their worth – it is not so. We are only limited by our imagination. These are probably my favorite panties, and if you look at them closely enough, you […]